7 Struggles of Watching Your Baby Sister Grow Up
Start writing a post
Relationships

7 Struggles of Watching Your Baby Sister Grow Up

It's a weird feeling being so proud of someone you wiped a few boogers on back in the day.

262
7 Struggles of Watching Your Baby Sister Grow Up

Having a younger sister is like having a second shadow: she's always right behind you following and occasionally mimicking yourevery move. She wears your clothes, hangs out with your friends, and basically worships the ground you walk on (even though she won't admit it.) Being a big sister to a little sister is tough, though, mostly because of the constant fighting and arguing, but then there's the feeling of combined sadness and joy when you watch her grow up and experience things that you know all too well - things like this:

1. Her first heartbreak.

You've been there and done that, and you weren't entirely sure that you could survive it. But you did, and now you're here to cry because your baby sister's crying over losing her first love. Then when the tears have dried, you're prepared to destroy all the things that remind her of him and have a girl's night together (which you'd probably never do otherwise.) You're a walking break-up survival kit, and you're ready to mend your little sister's broken heart any time day or night.

2. Her first car.

Listen, driving is scary, okay? And when your little sister's behind the wheel, a tiny 4-door car suddenly becomes a high-powered death machine. You aren't so much worried about her as you are other drivers on the road (okay, maybe she's not THAT great at driving), because you've been in rush hour traffic before and you're pretty sure that your deadly case of road rage is contagious. The worst part, though, is her first accident. No matter how big or small the wreck, you're gonna be there to make sure she's okay first then interrogate her further than the police after.

3. Her first job.

She's 16, and she has her driver's license and a car. She thinks she's grown by now, so as any adult would do, of course, she gets a part-time job. It's up to you to show her how to apply and how to manage her money once she lands a position. Little do you know, she has an obsession with clothes and make-up and all your efforts at building a financial foundation for her future are gonna be washed down the drain. Literally.

4. Her first prom.

The glitz. The glam. The dress. The hair. The nails. The make-up. The party. The after party... Uh oh... You warn her not to do anything you wouldn't do, which may not be much of a warning to heed, but you check in with her periodically throughout the night just to make sure that everything's peachy keen... and to make sure she still has a pulse.

5. Her high school graduation.

Growing up, you weren't entirely sure that she had the intelligence to get this far, so you're straight ugly crying when the date of her high school graduation finally arrives. It's a weird feeling being so proud of someone you wiped a few boogers on back in the day, but it's very satisfying and fulfilling because you know that she took every word of your advice throughout her high school career.

6. Her 18th birthday.

When your baby sister has the maturity of a 12-year-old, it's hard to imagine her being labeled as a legal adult by the law of the land. She refuses to go to Walmart by herself, so how is she prepared to gamble all her money away on lottery tickets? This is a crucial moment in being a big sister, because it's now your responsibility to show her how to be an adult when you're barely one yourself. Good luck.

7. Her dreams coming true.

I was so incredibly proud of my sister the day that she graduated from cosmetology school. She's always wanted to be a hair stylist and a nail tech, and she went after her dream. That drive, that dedication - yeah, she got that from me. She watched me shed blood, sweat, and tears to be the best I could be in high school to ensure that I was accepted to my college of choice, and she translated that into her own life. Your baby sister watches you, even when you think she isn't looking.

You know how it goes, you can pick on your little sister, but if anyone else tries to, you're ready to throw down. Even if you don't really care, she's always asking for your opinion because she values it. Having a younger sister is one of the most stressful experienced in love but it's also one of the most rewarding, because no matter how old she gets, she'll always be your baby sister.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

70744
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

132362
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments