Until you recognize the negatives in your life, you will not be able to prepare to tackle it all. Here are just a few ways you can take negativity out of your life:
1. Realize your worth.
You are too wonderful and amazing to be destroyed by negativity. Believe me, negativity can, and will, destroy you and your life. Once you see your true value, you will realize that you are worthy of more happiness and less negativity. Know what your values are in life and live by them. If you don't believe that you are worth happiness and light, you won't receive it; that's just how it works.
2. Get mentally prepared.
Letting go of negativity is not going to be easy. Letting the bad things and bad people go does not mean you have hate in your heart. It just means that you love yourself and give permission to yourself to be happy. Come to grips with eliminating negativity from your life and what that will mean for you and your life.
3. Identify the negatives in your life.
Until you recognize the negatives in your life, you will not be able to prepare to tackle it all. Write it out. The names, the emotions and the things that funnel negativity into your life. Negatives in your life are like weeds in a garden and positives are like flowers. You are going to have to remove negatives to allow room for positives in your life.4. Detoxify your life.
Limit, avoid and eliminate your interactions with the negativity in your life. Get rid of anyone who lies to you, disrespects you, uses you or puts you down. Stand up for yourself and be strong. If you can't somehow remove negatives from your life, try to turn those negatives into positives.
5. Shift your focus.
Create a plan for making your life better. Without a plan, you may find yourself searching for something that you will never find. Without the distraction of negativity looming over you and your life, set forth with the intention of being happy.
6. Surround yourself with positivity.
To ward off the negativity from your life, surround yourself with happiness. Do things that make you happy and be with people that make you happy. If you put positivity into the world, the world will put positivity into you. Negativity cannot infiltrate your life with a barrier of love, light or happiness around you and within you.