The 7 Hardest Things About A Long Distance Relationship | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

The 7 Hardest Things About A Long Distance Relationship

Navigating long distance relationships while also trying to enjoy your college experience.

3304
The 7 Hardest Things About A Long Distance Relationship
Cody Black

Long distance relationships are scary at any point of your life. The idea that your person won't be there whenever you need them or that you can't see them all the time can lead to serious emotional strain and even the possibility of breaking up.

If you are brave enough to dedicate yourself to a long distance relationship going into college, almost every person you meet will tell you they don't think its going to work out. But if you are both committed to each other, and making your relationship work, it is more than doable, it just won't be easy. Here are the 7 hardest things about a long distance relationship in college. And some ideas to help combat them

1. Your schedules will never line up.

As college students, you are busy enough as it is. And with different majors, classes, or even time zones, finding time through out the day to call or text can be tricky. But sending each other your weekly schedule, and even scheduling time for daily talks can help.


2. Miscommunication


Getting into arguments over text is common, unfortunately, because it is harder to understand tone and expressions. If there is a important conversation you need to have, doing this over video chat or a phone call can help avoid an unneeded fight.


3. Not knowing their friends


Being comfortable with your significant other's new group of friends can be hard when you've never met them. If you can, go to their school and visit your boy or girlfriend and meet their roommate(s)/friends. If not you can ask to talk to them over video chat.


4. Not being able to be there for them/have them be there for you after a bad day


Whenever you have a particularly bad day, they are the only one person you want to talk to. And having to call them, rather than seeing them in person, can be frustrating. Since they won't be there for the semester, find a really good friend that will sit with you while you vent or cry or scream and then go get ice cream with you after.


5. Seeing other couples around campus


Seeing the couples walking around holding hands or sitting on the hammocks together can be annoying, but only because you wish it was the two of you doing the same thing. If you invite your significant other to visit you, or you go to visit them, you can do all those annoying couple stuff together and everyone else will wish they were you.


6. Feeling disconnected


When you are far away from each other and focusing on yourself and your schooling, it can feel like you're not as important in your boy or girlfriend's life. Help them and yourself not feel this way by keeping them up to date on things happening in your life and on your campus.


7. Missing them all the time


No matter what you do, you're always going to miss your significant other every second you are away from them. But thankfully new technology makes it a lot easier for you to stay connected, and the time you do have to spend together will only be that much better!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Drake
Hypetrak

1. Nails done hair done everything did / Oh you fancy huh

You're pretty much feeling yourself. New haircut, clothes, shoes, everything. New year, new you, right? You're ready for this semester to kick off.

Keep Reading...Show less
7 Ways to Make Your Language More Transgender and Nonbinary Inclusive

With more people becoming aware of transgender and non-binary people, there have been a lot of questions circulating online and elsewhere about how to be more inclusive. Language is very important in making a space safer for trans and non-binary individuals. With language, there is an established and built-in measure of whether a place could be safe or unsafe. If the wrong language is used, the place is unsafe and shows a lack of education on trans and non-binary issues. With the right language and education, there can be more safe spaces for trans and non-binary people to exist without feeling the need to hide their identities or feel threatened for merely existing.

Keep Reading...Show less
singing
Cambio

Singing is something I do all day, every day. It doesn't matter where I am or who's around. If I feel like singing, I'm going to. It's probably annoying sometimes, but I don't care -- I love to sing! If I'm not singing, I'm probably humming, sometimes without even realizing it. So as someone who loves to sing, these are some of the feelings and thoughts I have probably almost every day.

Keep Reading...Show less
success
Degrassi.Wikia

Being a college student is one of the most difficult task known to man. Being able to balance your school life, work life and even a social life is a task of greatness. Here's an ode to some of the small victories that mean a lot to us college students.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

6 Signs You're A Workaholic

Becuase of all things to be addicted to, you're addicted to making money.

525
workaholic
kaboompics

After turning 16, our parents start to push us to get a job and take on some responsibility. We start to make our own money in order to fund the fun we intend on having throughout the year. But what happens when you've officially become so obsessed with making money that you can't even remember the last day you had off? You, my friend, have become a workaholic. Being a workaholic can be both good and bad. It shows dedication to your job and the desire to save money. It also shows that you don't have a great work-life balance. Here are the signs of becoming a workaholic.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments