Going through formal sorority recruitment is an exciting, but mostly very scary time. Here are just a couple common fears that all girls going through rush face.
1. What do I wear?
Looking through your closet, there are so many options but nothing good to actually wear.
2. How do I look?
It's the last look check-up before walking into a sorority house. Does your hair, makeup and outfit look alright? Do you have anything in your teeth? Please don't let there be spinach.
3. How do I know which house to go to? I don't know how to read Greek.
I think it's Delta that looks like a triangle. What is this thing that looks like a bent "E"? And I definitely know what Pi is...math class. Whatever, I'll just google it.
4. What if I'm awkward? What if the conversation sucks?
There's just something so intimidating about talking to 20+ random girls throughout an evening that you're trying to impress. Having an awkward conversation with someone is one of my worst nightmares. Could one bad conversation ruin my chance of getting into a certain sorority?
5. What if my top sorority doesn't want me back?
We all have a sorority in mind that we want to be a part of. The best is when you walk into their house and just have that magical feeling. Unfortunately, it's not just up to you. You may want a certain sorority, but they have to want you back.
6. What if I don't get a bid? Then what?
We all have this sinking feeling towards the end of recruitment. What if this doesn't work out? What if we made it all the way through rush without getting a single bid from a sorority? Or even worse, what if it from a sorority we don't like?
7. What if I don't get in the sorority that my friends get in?
Two words...major FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). No likes to be the friends that gets left behind.