Being a woman in today's society is exhausting. In fact, that's a severe understatement. We are expected to be every bit as motivated as men (who will still get paid more than us at the end of the day) while maintaining a flawless external appearance. We must be intelligent and successful, but our "beauty" cannot be compromised in the process of doing so. So we sacrifice extra sleep in the morning to make ourselves "presentable" and we make it through the days by constantly running to the bathroom to check for smeared makeup or frizzy hair. And what does our effort bring us at the end of the day? Compliments. We are reduced down to being told, "You look pretty." This shallow saying just isn't enough for me. It's empty and diminishes all of the other aspects of who I am. Below is a list of 60 things I'd rather be called than just "pretty."
1. Intelligent
2. Ambitious
3. Kind
4. Forgiving
5. Generous
6. Funny
7. Optimistic
8. Accepting
9. Motivated
10. Passionate
11. Brave
12. Creative
13. Inspiring
14. Hard Working
15. Genuine
16. Helpful
17. Courageous
18. Resourceful
19. Persistent
20. Patient
21. Determined
22. Inventive
23. Indomitable
24. Empowered
25. Adventurous
26. Driven
27. Compassionate
28. Strong
29. Talented
29. Perceptive
30. Brilliant
31. Open-minded
32. Insightful
33. Accomplished
34. Accountable
35. Efficient
36. Empathetic
37. Receptive
38. Original
39. Visionary
40. Worldly
41. Vibrant
42. Bold
43. Confident
44. Fearless
45. Unparalleled
46. Exceptional
47. Dedicated
48. Witty
49. Conscientious
50. Enthusiastic
51. Fiery
52. Imaginative
53. Reliable
54. Resilient
55. Sassy
56. Unstoppable
57. Zealous
58. Honorable
59. Interesting
60. Unique
Don't ever let a word as weak as "pretty" define you. You are so much more.
