For those of you who don't know just from the title, Wade Kinsella and George Tucker are characters from the show "Hart of Dixie," which aired on The CW from 2011-2015. They are love interests throughout the show, involved in a love triangle with the main character, Zoe Hart.
These two characters are very different. Wade is very country backwoods while George Tucker is the cookie cutter, clean-cut Southern gentleman. Wade is sarcastic, sometimes rude, and very teasing. Again, George is the perfect gentleman.
The whole point of this article is to explain how sometimes it's better to choose the Wade over the George.
Disclaimer: I am not saying to choose the boy who is mean to you, pushes you down or plays endless games with your emotions. I am also not saying that you have to dislike guys who are gentlemen or chivalrous.
There is nothing wrong with a man who opens doors for you, helps you up or downstairs when you're in heels and uses his manners. I'm just simply saying that girls like guys who can tease them and have fun, too.
1. The secret looks they give you.
If the guy you like — or who likes you — is anything like Wade Kinsella, chances are he's not going to be an open book about his feelings towards you. But if you're lucky--and sneaky enough--you may catch him giving you a secret look. A look he doesn't give anyone else but you, maybe accompanied by a cute little smile. It kind of just shows that deep down, he does care about you. And sometimes those moments are more special than with the perfect George Tucker who will tell you what you want to hear, all the time.
2. They're sometimes clueless.
George Tucker may know what you want in the perfect bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates and the perfect night at a dance, but guys like Wade Kinsella might not get that--even if you practically spell it out for him. And as frustrating as that can get, it's also kind of cute when you think about it. In some way, he'll make it up to you and will surprise you when you least expect it.
3. He'll confuse you... a lot.
A little flirting isn't a bad thing. Maybe sometimes he'll wrap his arm around you or kiss you on the head if you're close but not dating and it'll confuse the heck out of you. My boyfriend did this before we were dating. But trust me, he was worth it. Just make sure your guy isn't playing games and that he doesn't do that with every girl he sees.
4. He's probably got walls up that you have to get around.
This is where you have to be careful because if he's really been hurt in the past then he's going to have walls up, and it won't be easy to break them down. If he's not sure if you're really going to stick around for him, he may change — at the weirdest times — and be completely closed off and distant. Boys are weird and they're confusing.
5. He's complicated and sarcastic, but deep down he's sweet.
He'll tease you, call you names and give you a hard time, but if he really likes you, he'll show it in some way, even if it's not often. It might just be a sweet smile or carrying you when your feet are tired. He's not the perfect gentleman 24/7, and that's OK When he has his moments, they're worth the wait.
6. If it's meant to be, it will.
At the end of the day, you can't push things to happen. You have to trust in them, and in God's Will. If it's in His plans for you, it'll happen. Just be patient and listen to what He's telling you.
