College is a time of living your best life, but dating in college can be very hard at times.
Ghosting
There is nothing worse then waking up in one day to being left on read. When you snapchat/text them they still leave you on read until you never hear from them again. It can leave someone wondering what exactly went wrong, they can feel confused because as far as you knew everything was ok... until it wasn't. It does not take much to tell someone that it is not working out, not to mention it will make the person feel better to know what happened instead of constantly wondering.
sex is expected
In my experience if a guy takes you on a date sex is expected. It is like the boys will actually be mad at you for not putting out on the first date.
You cannot say what you feel in the fear of "being crazy"
There has been so many times boys have done me wrong, and instead of telling them exactly how I feel I just suffer in silence. Girls get the label of being crazy just because they explain how they feel, and I think that is a shame.
There is never a label to anything
You can spend everyday with a boy for the past couple of weeks, spend the night with him, and text him constantly. However, the minute someone brings up the idea of defining the relationship things get weird and awkward.
You have to date boys who simply put are not it
When you are casually dating you can get discouraged quickly, you have to go through a lot of duds before you find a potential boyfriend.
