Relationships are not just Facebook statuses like "married," "in a civil union," or "in a domestic partnership" (often denoted "serious relationships"). There are plenty of other romantic relationships that people may have, and many of them happen during college years. Of these, there are several that are not taken seriously, resulting in the neglect of one's partner(s). When realizing that casual romantic situations can still be considered relationships, it is much easier to make healthy choices, even on college campuses.

1. Hookups/No Strings Attached:

When people briefly engage in sexual contact, it is fine--unless there happens to be a lack of contraception and obvious consent involved in the sexual engagement. It is also important to make a conscious decision to converse with the partner before and after this engagement, for understanding of the further complexities of the relationship.

2. Friends with Benefits:

Before engaging in this relationship, one should communicate with the partner(s) about whether they want to be the only person in this relationship and if it is okay to have other partners. Like hookups, this situation can be simply for sexual or emotional pleasure, but it is also important to communicate when to end the relationship, if desiring to do so.

3."Side-chick/Side-dude":

When referring to someone as a "side-partner" one is putting more importance on the "main
partner," in terms of favoritism. In relationships, it is never OK to make someone feel as though they are being neglected without their consent. One should only engage in this relationship if it is okay with all partners in this arrangement.

4. Pending Relationships:

People may take these relationships very casually, when in fact strong emotions may develop throughout time. Many choose to act flirtatiously with others, while not linking this to any consequences, such as long-term relationships. Self-reflection is key here.

5. Monogamous "Long-term" Relationships:

These are the relationships that are the most "accepted" in society. Whether these relationships are long distance or confrontational, these are the most accounted for.

But the five most important things to realize in any relationship are:

1. Communication is key.

2. Loyalty means integrity, not necessarily singularity. Be loyal to partner(s) by communicating the "dos" and "don'ts" of a relationship.

3. Be safe. Do not get in a relationship that is harmful. Take precaution.

4. Be kind and considerate.

5. Everyone is unique and may have different preferences. Be sure to respect that.