5 Tips For Maintaining Long-Distance Friendships | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

5 Tips For Maintaining Long-Distance Friendships

I have new friends, but one of the best joys of life is to have a long conversation with someone from your past.

9
5 Tips For Maintaining Long-Distance Friendships

In This Article:

Being an immigrant is hard. You have to live many painful experiences and situations you have never imagined. One of the hardest is to live far from my friends and family. Indeed, you do not need to be an immigrant to live far from your loved ones, but in my case, that is the reason. My experience started before the day I left Venezuela. It began the day my friends decided to leave our country.

Of course, I have new friends, but one of the best joys of life is to have a long conversation with someone from your past. By now I have learned how to stay in touch with my oldest friends even though they live in remote places such as Australia, England, China or Chile.

I want to share my best tips to keep in touch with my friends.

1. Birthdays.

media.giphy.com

I am obsessed with birthdays. Since forever, I always call, text or visit my friends and family for their birthdays and they must contact me on mine. It is not about the presents; it is about the fact we must talk at least two times per year. Birthdays are the best excuse to talk. Today it is even easier because apps like Facebook remind us of our friend's B-Days.

I always call or send a voice note to my friends. It is not only a congratulation; it is the chance to summarize the last months of my life and ask them what happened with them.

2. Memes and jokes.

media.giphy.com

Sometimes we cannot have deep conversations. Every day is significant and full of stories; I am not a Kardashian. One of my techniques to keep on touch is to send memes or jokes. The key here is to be selective. I do not send the same joke to everybody. Each person has his/her style, hobbies and favorite TV shows and movies; then, I know what to send to whom.

3. Voice notes.

media.giphy.com

I love voice notes. My favorite app is "WhatsApp," and I can send a long voice note (over ten minutes). They are helpful because I can send some words to my friends and the voice notes give them the chance to answer me when they can. A call implies that both of us must be only talking, but I can send a voice note while I am driving or having my daily walk.

4. Social Media.

media.giphy.com

Social media is the best for long-distance-friendships. Twitter, Instagram and Facebook give me the chance to know the daily routine of my friends. I can see if they go to a restaurant, to the movie theater, to the gym or what their new hobbies are. I use the chance to make comments about their posts and ask questions about their activities. I cannot imagine how hard it was to keep your friends two decades ago when we only had letters or calls.

5. Traveling.

media.giphy.com

Traveling is the more difficult one. I know we do not have the money or the time to travel, but anytime I can I go to visit my friends. Because of my friends, I have gone to cities I never dreamed of visiting.

Long-distance-friendships suck, but life is not easy, and we have to work hard to keep loving and taking care of our loved ones no matter what.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

12 Midnight NYE: Fun Ideas!

This isn't just for the single Pringles out there either, folks

14634
Friends celebrating the New Years!
StableDiffusion

When the clock strikes twelve midnight on New Year's Eve, do you ever find yourself lost regarding what to do during that big moment? It's a very important moment. It is the first moment of the New Year, doesn't it seem like you should be doing something grand, something meaningful, something spontaneous? Sure, many decide to spend the moment on the lips of another, but what good is that? Take a look at these other suggestions on how to ring in the New Year that are much more spectacular and exciting than a simple little kiss.

Keep Reading...Show less
piano
Digital Trends

I am very serious about the Christmas season. It's one of my favorite things, and I love it all from gift-giving to baking to the decorations, but I especially love Christmas music. Here are 11 songs you should consider adding to your Christmas playlists.

Keep Reading...Show less
campus
CampusExplorer

New year, new semester, not the same old thing. This semester will be a semester to redeem all the mistakes made in the previous five months.

1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

Let's face it, last semester you woke up with enough time to brush your teeth and get to class and even then you were about 10 minutes late and rollin' in with some pretty unfortunate bed head. This semester we will set our alarms, wake up with time to get ready, and get to class on time!

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 5 Painfully True Stages Of Camping Out At The Library

For those long nights that turn into mornings when the struggle is real.

2934
woman reading a book while sitting on black leather 3-seat couch
Photo by Seven Shooter on Unsplash

And so it begins.

1. Walk in motivated and ready to rock

Camping out at the library is not for the faint of heart. You need to go in as a warrior. You usually have brought supplies (laptop, chargers, and textbooks) and sustenance (water, snacks, and blanket/sweatpants) since the battle will be for an undetermined length of time. Perhaps it is one assignment or perhaps it's four. You are motivated and prepared; you don’t doubt the assignment(s) will take time, but you know it couldn’t be that long.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 14 Stages Of The Last Week Of Class

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

1762
black marker on notebook

December... it's full of finals, due dates, Mariah Carey, and the holidays. It's the worst time of the year, but the best because after finals, you get to not think about classes for a month and catch up on all the sleep you lost throughout the semester. But what's worse than finals week is the last week of classes, when all the due dates you've put off can no longer be put off anymore.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments