Sometimes in life, we face obstacles that we never dreamed of being faced with. Sometimes those obstacles feel like they will never end, or go away. Sometimes it seems like we are faced with a new obstacle EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. For me, that has been the case recently. Being the optimistic and positive person I am, I have tried my best not to let these obstacles drag me down, or add any weight to my shoulders. So, if you're going through a tough time, this is for you.

1. Haters gonna hate

Sometimes people suck. Like, let's just face it. Not everyone is always going to be in your corner, and sometimes it may be those who are closest to you that show you this. Keep your chin held high, karma does not lose an address. My tip: Always do your best. If you are doing your best, then you are doing right. Always do your best to ignore all of the side comments or the backlash, and keep working hard.

2. Live your best life

Whatever this means for you, DO IT! Life is way too short. Things might be hard, but every day not spent living is a day you won't get back. Scoop yourself together to the best of your ability, make a bucket list, and do you, boo!

3. Be proud of yourself

You, my friend, have accomplished so much. And, you still have so much left that you will accomplish throughout your journey of life. I am proud of you, and I know there are others who are also proud of you. Keep pushing to achieve your dreams, because YOU WILL GET THERE!

4. Work hard play harder

Work can be extremely overwhelming, and maybe you have two of three jobs. Remember in those moments of complete exhaustion, and stress eventually, one day, some day, hopefully soon, all of this hard work is going to pay off. But, in the meantime TREAT YO SELF! :)

5. Say NO

It seems like when you have so much going on, everyone is contacting you to go out or help with something. It's okay to say no! I know, I know, it makes me feel guilty too. But, we've all been there. You're busy. When you have down time take the time to relax. Sometimes "Ain't nobody got time for that"

With all that being said...

Keep your chin up, keep your heart happy, and take care of yourself. You have one life, and this is it. Make the most of it.