I don’t regret my ex boyfriend or our relationship. But I will be the first to admit that f*ck boys teach us valuable lessons about ourselves (whether we are willing to accept it or not.) Here are five things that my f*ck boy ex boyfriend taught me about my self:

1. My Worth

Gone were the days when I would wait around for a man to give me his time. I realized that I deserved better than a person who showed up whenever he felt like it. If someone loves you then they’ll protect you and if they don’t then they’ll take advantage.

2. I Love Being Alone

I do not know why it is that f*ck boys are the most spontaneous men. Be prepared for those “Hey, I’m outside” text right when you take all your make up off. You’ll feel like you have to drop everything (including your main priorities like school, work, etc.,) but the truth is you don’t. It’s important that you give your self time to have your own thoughts and remember what life is like with out him in the picture.

3. Keep Your Expectations Low

A relationship status does not guarantee loyalty. No one owes you anything and it is up to you to create the life that you envision. Do not depend on anyone to come and save you because odds are you will end up very disappointed.

4. Make Time For Friendships

Many girls (myself included) put our partner first. However, that is a big no-no. Do not push your friends to the side just because you have a new man in the picture. In the end, when he’s gone you will realize that no one’s got you like your girls have got you.

5. Don't Change Yourself

Let’s be honest, some guys will say anything to get what they want. Don’t change your morals only to seek the approval of someone who is not willing to do the same for you.