Five Stages Of Grief You Experienced Before Winter Break Ended | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

Five Stages Of Grief You Experienced Before Winter Break Ended

The Office understands.

18
Five Stages Of Grief You Experienced Before Winter Break Ended
listal

Almost everyone has heard of the five stages of grief, even if they have not suffered a tragedy. These stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. You may have already known that. But did you know that you probably experienced all of them when you came back to school after Christmas Break?

1. Denial

Before you left to go back to school, did you put off packing as long as you possibly could? Did you avoid checking your email for weeks? Then you may have experienced the first stage of grief. You were in denial. You may still be.

2. Anger

Once you realized you absolutely had to start packing and reading your emails, did you feel bitter and irritated? Did you begin to scowl at small children and animals? Did it take more muscles to smile than to frown? Maybe, just maybe, you were angry.

3. Bargaining

This is one of the more confusing stages of grief. So let's start with some examples. Did you find yourself praying for school cancellations? Did you beg friends and family to subtly kidnap you? Did you contemplate committing identity theft in a desperate attempt to create a new life for yourself, one free of the responsibilities of college life? You were definitely bargaining.

4. Depression

You finally realized that all of these plans and requests were a bit unreasonable. This just discouraged you more. Did you spend the majority of your days avoiding social interactions while you binge-watched New Girl? Did you eat more ice cream in one week than you had the entire semester previous? Did pictures of fuzzy animals make you cry? You were most likely experiencing a mild state of depression.

5. Acceptance

After watching four seasons of New Girl in three days, you finally decided to change your clothes and eat something that didn't require a microwave. You realized that you had to go back to school so you might as well make the most of what was left of your break. You spent those last few days laughing with your friends and eating the best food that your mom could cook. Did you start looking forward to the good times you would have on campus? Did you actually get excited about seeing your friends at school again? Congratulations! You've made through the five stages of grief and have finally accepted your situation.

Now go enjoy your life as a college student and play in the snow while it's still here!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Adulting

The Struggles of Being A Last Semester Senior, As Told By Michael Scott

25 reasons your last semester in college is the best and worst time of your life

100
Michael Scott

The day you walked onto your school's campus for the first time you were scared, excited, and unsure of how the next four years of your life were going to turn out. You doubted it would go fast and even though you weren't positive about what your future plans would hold, you had plenty of time. You figured out your major, added a minor or two, joined a handful of organizations and all of the sudden you're here. Your final semester of undergrad. Now you've got 25 problems and graduation is only one.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Syllabus Week At UD Explained By "The Office"

"The Office" understands the struggle of the first week back from winter break.

183
the office

January 19th is the first day of the second semester at the University of Dayton, and students couldn't be more excited. However, the excitement that students are experiencing may be short-lived once they see what this semester's courses will entail. Although students will be happy to be back at Dayton, they may realize this semester will be more difficult than they predicted. Here are some things that happen during syllabus week explained by " The Office."

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Your Friend Group, As Told By Disney Princesses

Each Disney Princess has their own personality, and chances are you've got a friend in your group to match it.

864
Disney Princesses

The dynamics of any friend group are usually determined by the personalities which make it up. Chances are, while personalities may overlap, each person in your friend group holds his or her own place. It is the differences which bring the groups together and keep them functioning. No matter how functionally dysfunctional your friend group may be, if you're anything like me, you feel absolutely blessed to have found such a wonderful group of humans to call "your people." Here is what your friend group might look like if they were Disney princesses (and that wasn't just a thing you all pretended in your heads):

Keep Reading...Show less
dorm roon
Tumblr

College is a place where you spend four years exploring opportunities you never knew were there, creating the person you are, and making life-long friends. College is hard, but it is worth spending four years there. Just because college is difficult doesn't mean that it's not fun. There are plenty of great memories you can make during your four years if college. Here are ways college is designed to be the best four years of your life:

Keep Reading...Show less
college shirt

These individuals excel in their studies, fueled by both natural intelligence and hard work. From the ambitious Entrepreneur to the talented Theatre Person, each student on this list embodies a unique aspect of college life and showcases the diverse interests and passions found on campus.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments