Life gets busy, but sometimes we lose sight of the things and people that matter most. I know one person I often forget to appreciate is my mom, and I know I'm not the only young adult guilty of this. We seriously are so self-centered at this stage in our lives that we can't even call to check up on the person that gave birth to us I have gathered a short list of reasons we should all be thanking our mom.
1. She has always been there.
No matter the situation I have gotten myself into, my mom has always been by my side. The annoying texts she receives (almost daily) because I realized I'm not great at the whole adult thing. I don't understand how life works, but she has the answers to literally everything, Our moms were at every game, took pictures before every dance, listened to ALL of our problems, and always welcomed us with a hug. I should have thanked you sooner.
2. She knows you better than you know yourself.
Remember that time she gave you advice but you rebelliously ignored it. Now that I am older I am realizing that most of the time she was right and I should have listened. Or when you thought your life was over because she grounded you, I'm sure you deserved it and somehow learned a valuable lesson. Moms really just want what is best for their children and are ok with knowing we will realize it someday. I should have thanked you sooner.
3. Her food is amazing.
My mom worked, drove us around, and somehow always made delicious food. No matter how good the meal is, she always humbly says, "I guess it's alright". No mom, it's amazing, and I should have told you this every time I had the chance, I still look forward to coming home and having food from your kitchen. I know you never thought it was as good as Granny's, but I know I'll be in your shoes saying the same thing about you. Thanks for the added weight and full stomach, but I should have said this sooner.
4. You were the best teacher.
My mom really is a retired school teacher, but I mean in a different way. She always taught me right from wrong. Our moms also have a way of saying things that just tear us apart like, "I'm not mad, just disappointed". This is a phrase I always resented, and instead of showing you respect I automatically lashed out because I was so mad at myself. You taught me to pray for my enemies and live each day to the fullest. I also learned that when life gets tough, I need to get tougher. I know you thought all of these lessons went in one ear and out the other, but they were all heard, I promise. I should have thanked you sooner.
5. She has always seen the best in you.
Crying outside with make-up running down my face, my mom was there telling me I deserve better. Every time we feel worthless our moms are the only ones we deserve all life has to offer.