Ladies! Listen up, If you’re going through a break up or dealing with some f*ckboys or just need some female empowerment inspiration well then you have came to the right place. I have some advice for you coming from the greatest ladies of all time. These ladies know how to embrace your inner queen and slay all these men and life for that matter.
1. “On My Own” by the one and only Miley Cyrus
Miley wrote BANGERZ during her break up with Liam, but best believe the girl killed this whole album. On My Own is a great song to empower yourself after a break up. The title is “On My Own” because you don’t need anyone and can do whatever you want without any one else.
Stand Out Lyrics: And I'll do it on my own
I will get it done with the help from no one
I came into this world by myself
So I don't need nobody else
We have just begun
So much to do, so young
Don't be afraid of alone, you'll get it done on your own
2. “Can’t Hold Us Down” By Christina Aguilera ft. Lil Kim
If you haven’t heard this song, honestly please stop reading this and go listen to this song. This song is the most empowering song I’ve heard in my entire life. Every lyric talks about the double standards of women and men and Christina and Lil Kim don’t stop until they get their point across that nobody “can hold us down”.
Stand Out Lyrics: This is for my girls all around the world
Who've come across a man who don't respect your worth
Thinking all women should be seen, not heard
So what do we do girls?
Shout out loud!
Letting them know we're gonna stand our ground
Lift your hands high and wave them proud
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will, can't hold us down
3. “No Scrubs” by TLC
This is a MAJOR throwback, but still one of the best songs to listen to when guys who are not worth your time are trying to hit on you. TLC shows us that we will not settle and or stoop down to be with someone who is not up to standards. These R&B queens are true to their word, they don’t want “no scrubs” and neither do I (or you for that matter).
Stand Out Lyrics: I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
4. “Needed Me” by Rihanna
If you know me, you know I think RiRi is the baddest b*tch in the game. The girl knows how to put a man in his place and show them who wears the plants in the relationship. Needed Me is more than a sexual anthem, but it’s about how the man needed her for everything and hated it because let’s be real, some men just can’t admit that they need us.
Stand Out Lyrics: But, baby, don't get it twisted
You was just another n*gga on the hit list
Tryna fix your inner issues with a bad b*tch
Didn't they tell you that I was a savage?
F*ck your white horse and a carriage
Bet you never could imagine
Never told you, you could have it
Last but definitely not the least because there is definitely one million songs I could’ve chose for this, but the last empowering song you should listen to after a break up or just dealing with some BS is:
5. “Sorry” by QUEEN B
This song is the ultimate F U to an ex. Beyonce had an amazing album with Lemonade, but Sorry has become the ultimate anthems for women who are dealing with a break up. B wasn’t sorry when she made this song and I’m definitely not sorry for telling ALL these boys “BOY BYE” and making sure Becky with the good hair doesn’t come by me or I’m coming out swinging.
Stand Out Lyrics: Middle fingers up
Put them hands high
Wave it in his face
Tell 'em boy bye
Tell 'em boy bye
Boy bye
Middle fingers up
I ain't thinking 'bout you
My last words to you ladies who are dealing with this is listen to these songs, know your worth, go out and tell every boy “bye”.
