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5 Lessons Taught By Younger Siblings

They may be younger, but they can still be wiser.

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5 Lessons Taught By Younger Siblings
Chelsey Withers

There are hundreds of ways to learn lessons each day. However, some of the best lessons I have learned have come from being an older sibling.The best part of the lessons is you strive to be a role model and set an example for your siblings, but somewhere down the road they teach you the lessons.

1. How to be your own person.

As the oldest I never had to worry about, “So you’re her younger sister or brother” I just had to always be myself. However, you didn’t have that opportunity. Instead you took away those impressions and proved that you are a completely different person and had similar traits, but that doesn’t matter you still are different and are an impeccable person all on your own.

2. How to care for someone.

Everything I couldn’t be there for it hurt. The texting mom and dad to see what your doing and how the game is going or to make sure to send me extra pictures for the dances you’re going to. I learned how to move away, but still care deeply and how to be a better sister, daughter and friend because of you two and for that I’m forever thankful.

3. Life is short, so appreciate every moment.

One of the best things about being your older sister is I had the privilege and honor of watching the two of you grow up. For the one that’s closer in age I remember almost giving mom and dad a heart attack for all the different stunts we tried to pull as kids. For the youngest, I remember the day you were born and every aspect of your life. All of the memories and watching the two of you grow up put a realization to me of how in a blink of an eye I can miss something and the last thing I want is to miss something in your lives.

4. Appreciate the little things.

Even though I don’t think either of you realize it, but the little things you do is what brings an easy smile. Whether it’s a text finding out you made honor roll or got accepted into college I couldn’t be happier. Even the text that just say “I miss you.” You both have taught me that a simple text or random act of kindness and change turn a bad day into an incredible day and for that I thank you.

5. Friends will come and go but siblings last forever.

Being the oldest meant I went first. The first for failures or success and through that I learned a lot of tough lessons. The most valuable lesson I have learned is even during the worst of times you two were always there getting me through whatever the situation was. Thank you for teaching me the value of family. I will always stand by your side and support every decision you make and defend you whenever you need me too. Through thick and thin we have always been there for each other and the two of you have always given me the support I have needed. I can’t thank you enough for everything you’ve done. Friends may say they are the three amigos and I say that for me and m two best friends. The three best friends, amigos and best siblings a person could have. I love you to the moon and back.

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