I've recently had the unique experience of moving back home for the summer in between the spring and fall semesters. While this may be a common occurrence for anyone going to school outside of a major city, for me, it's been quite the transition. I haven't actually lived at home for almost two years. In that time I became accustomed to the things that New Yorkers take for granted. Being at home has forced me to appreciate some things about New York more than I ever did before. While moving from New York City to the suburbs of Long Island isn't geographically the biggest move, in every other way it's been a huge change. Even though I may not love it all the time, I've definitely learned a lot about being a New Yorker through being away from the city. Maybe next time there is a subway delay I won't immediately start complaining about how much I hate the MTA. Maybe.

1. I Appreciate the Business of Day-to-Day Life

Sometimes New Yorkers get cranky about how busy they are everyday or how crowded the city is or how everyone is in a rush. I'm guilty of it too. However, here on Long Island I am B-O-R-E-D. Honestly, other than work there is really nothing to do as compared to the city. I find myself sleeping days away out of sheer boredom. Next time I think about complaining about my crazy New York college kid schedule, I'll think twice.

2. I Miss Public Transportation

I know the MTA is a wreck. But I will take our slightly messy subway system over the complete lack of public transportation found here in the suburbs. The biggest reason I am so bored is because I can't go anywhere. Unfortunately, I moved to the city straight out of High School and never quite got my license. I am once again bound to my parents driving me around. I didn't realize how much that sucked until now. Take it from me, the MTA is not that bad.

3. I Love My Mom's Cooking

One of the good things about moving back home is that I have my mom's cooking back. While I do like cooking, I hate spending money on food and I really hate having to clean up after. Moving back home, I really appreciate having home cooked dinners every night. Next time you go home, make sure to thank your mom for cooking. Maybe even do the dishes.

4. I Really Miss My Friends

No, not the TV show; luckily I still have that in the suburbs. Being away from school and the city has almost completely cut me off from the friends I'm used to seeing everyday. Honestly, I feel a little lost without them. What I've really learned is how much my friends mean to me and how much of a stabilizing force they are in my life. Make sure to tell your friends you love them and appreciate every second you are with them.

5. The Suburbs Will Never Be As Great As The City

This is the biggest thing I've learned. To me, it's a fact. The energy of the suburbs just doesn't compare to the city. Sure, the city is a bit hectic, but people like me feed off of that energy. In the city I feel creatively and socially more fulfilled. All I can say is, I can't wait to go back.