With the ever changing plot line and growing popularity of ABC's "Grey's Anatomy," fans tend to find community with one another in the insanity and sorrow. Throughout the 13 seasons we've been through more experiences in this TV show than we'll ever go through in real life. Here are 5 things that all Grey's fans can relate to.

1. You've actually considered becoming a doctor.

The characters on the show make 4 years of med school and internship look like a load of fun. Plus, medical school would be a cake walk with all the information you've learned on the show. I'm sure we can all relate to yelling "GIVE THE MAN A CT SCAN" on more than one occasion. Especially one occasion in particular. We all know the one.

2. You're slightly desensitized to death.

Let's face it, Grey's is filled with death and sadness. Not only with the main characters, but even with the every day patients that appear in the episodes. As fans, we've survived shootings, drownings, cancer, divorce, and a plane crash. But apparently not a car accident. Sorry, still bitter.

3. You're very aware that most of the characters are liars.

"The Healing powers of love!" - Derek Shepherd

"I believe that believing we survive is what makes us survive." - Izzie Stephens

"I can't lose you. I won't survive and that's your fault." - Alex Karev

Okay, sure. At this point I'm sure we've all learned to never listen to anyone on this show, because let's face it, they don't know what they're talking about. Especially Derek. OK, I swear I'm done now.

4. You constantly ask yourself why you started watching this show in the first place.

Why did I start this show? Why do I keep watching? Why do I continue putting myself through this emotional rollercoaster? Do I secretly hate myself? At this stage we've probably all asked ourselves if all this pain is worth all the drama. We've all been there. Let it out. We understand.

5. We aspire to have a person like Christina and Meredith.

We all need a friendship like Christina and Meredith. Someone to cry with, work together, dish out relationship advise to, and have dance parties with. Admit it, these ladies have been through thick and thin together. They deserve the title of being each other's 'person'Through thick and thin, we all know that we're likely to never stop watching our favorite characters go through life. Or death. OK, I lied, still salty. Anyway, at least we as fans can all band together to cry and laugh it all out. Shonda Rhimes, what have you done to us all?