My friend (hopefully jokingly) asked me one day, "What do you even do since you don't have a boyfriend?"
So I decided to answer the question, here is a list of ideas for those who don't have boyfriends.
1. Read
2. Run
3. Workout
4. Write
5. Hangout with your friends
6. Learn a new instrument
7. Get a pet
8. Go for a hike
9. Explore poetry
10. Become a food critic (on your own of course)
11. Get your nails done
12. Dance
13. Explore the touristy activities in your area
14. Catch up on chores
15. Do your laundry
16. Garden
17. Have a picnic
18. Visit a local coffee shop with friends
19. Learn the art of photography
20. Go to an art class
21. Learn to juggle
22. Bike
23. Go swimming
24. Become organized
25. Learn how to do hair
26. Bond with your parents
27. Take a relaxation day
28. Buy some new clothes
29. Take a bubble bath
30. Get a gym membership
31. Travel
32. Hammock
33. Make a bucket list and complete it
34. Go dirt-biking
35. Volunteer at places you think need help
36. Research a topic that you've always wanted to know more about
37. Attend an open-mic some place
38. Do some karaoke
39. Go skiing
40. Eat some dark chocolate
41. Take your parents out to dinner
42. Spend time with your siblings
43. Get a new piercing
44. Start a new TV series
45. Learn what you want in your next relationship and the next guy you date
This is a list of 45 things that can be done without a boyfriend. My point is not to rag those who have boyfriends, but to prove that almost anything can be done without a boyfriend (or with a boyfriend). Having a boyfriend is not essential to learning how to live or love. Rather, you should be with someone who makes you happy but does not take time away from the things you love to do. A boyfriend is not someone who completes you, but compliments you. Dating is normal, being interested in guys is not bad, but forgetting your friends, replacing your friends, forgetting who you are, and losing pieces of who you were is wrong. Go on and date, but those who are single are okay being who they are without having to compromise on what they want to do or who they share the bed with.