The word "pretty" is thrown around like the most ambiguous compliment in the world. So-called "compliments" come to you in the form of Don't worry, you're too pretty for that or Well, at least you're pretty!
I'm tired of this word thrown out as a justification for anything in life. People strive to get this compliment daily, hoping to walk into a room to hear someone say you look pretty today. It's such a common compliment that we have begun accepting it as the highest form of flattery instead of realizing that our worth is seen in countless other aspects of our life. I'm tired of this seen as the peak of compliments when there are so many "prettier" things you could call someone. Here are 40 compliments that are so much better than being called "pretty":
1. Mesmerizing
2. Inspiring
3. Honest
4. Humble
5. Artistic
6. Strong
7. Influential
8. Classy
9. Mindful
10. Sophisticated
11. Brave
12. Powerful
13. Independent
14. Intelligent
15. Funny
16. Generous
17. Reliable
18. Dedicated
19. Creative
20. Responsible
21. Positive
22. Assured
23. Caring
24. Enthusiastic
25. Exciting
26. Joyful
27. Compassionate
28. Capable
29. Charming
30. Eager
31. Adventurous
32. Mature
33. Loving
34. Helpful
35. Sincere
36. Clever
37. Considerate
38. Surprising
39. Motivating
40. Brilliant
It's time we stop complimenting appearances and focus on what truly matters. It is time we see value in what matters rather than just what our appearance is. I don't want to strive for 'pretty;' I aspire to be so much more than simply 'pretty.' As "Grey's Anatomy" Cristina Yang would say, "Screw beautiful. I'm brilliant. If you want to appease me, compliment my brain."