Over the past week or so, many college students have received first semester grades. Most of them seem to have done well, and scrolling through Facebook I was amazed to see how many people earned a 4.0 this past semester, especially in the first semester of college for some. My grades didn't even have the potential to earn me a 4.0 this past semester, and I began to feel down on myself. But then I realized I'm not a 4.0 student, and I'm completely okay with that.

My main focus in my first semester of college has been to get involved in things that I enjoy and will enhance my experience in the next four years. I was able to join a sorority that I adore with every inch of my being. I became the Public Relations Lead on the Relay for Life Committee of my school, and I play club volleyball. Even though I've only decided to become heavily involved in three activities thus far, it does not take away from how demanding and time consuming each of them can be. Add that time on top of homework and classes, and you have yourself a week full of things to do without any question.

If I had decided to focus on academics, which is still extremely important, I would not have the experiences and friends that I've made in my first three months of college. Instead, I've decided to find the happy medium; do well in school, get involved, and receive a GPA shy of a 4.0. For some it isn't ideal, but for me it means everything. If I had taken another route, I am sure my perception of college would have been negative. I am eternally grateful that I am not a 4.0 student because it has allowed me to explore varying other opportunities without losing commitment to either my activities or academics.