How do you find the friends that will be there for you through it all? How do you know when someone is honest and true blue? When you're hungover on a Saturday morning and do not want to move from your bed, will they be right there with you? Top four things to look for in a friend are:
1. Trust:
Have they kept your secrets? Have they tried to slash your ex's tires? Will they tell you if you're being a bitch or your outfit is ugly? As ridiculous as it sounds, these questions are necessary in the process of finding your true friends forever. A girl needs her best friends to get through the obstacles life throws at her. These are so important to keep an eye out for.
2. Motivation:
Are the people you surround yourself with motivated? Do they motivate you to be the best version of yourself? Are they optimistic? When you can't see the good in yourself, do they point it out for you?
3. Happiness:
Find someone you can crack up with at any hour of the day about anything in the world. Find someone who makes you happy and excited! Find a friend that you can sit on the couch with for an entire day and not say a word to, but still feel like you're spending time with them.
4. Appetite:
Last but not least, make sure you can eat with them. I know everyone eats but make sure you can pig out like food is about to go extinct tomorrow with them. Super important- probably the most important factor!
I have gone through a lot of friends in my 21 years. They come and go and come back and leave again, but the best ones stick with you through it all.