Turning 23 isn't a milestone birthday but this year has brought up a lot a reflection after going through a period of tribulations. We tend to forget the big picture of our lives that we just need to enjoy the ride and reflect on our growth as a person. Here are some things I have learned throughout the way.
1. Be more in the moment.
With life becoming monotonous, we are so fast paced and do not take a break to just breath and look around in our surrounds and embrace the moment we are in.
2. Check up on your loved ones more often.
A quick I love you or a text message goes a long way to know that you are appreciated and being thought of.
3. Embrace what you used to love as a kid again.
The greatest thing about being a child is fearlessness and imagination to be open to anything and we tend to lose that as we get older. To have back that feeling even for a moment is a moment of pure happiness.
4. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health.
How are you able to do all the great things in life you want to accomplish if you don't take care of your body and mind.
5. You can say no a lot more than you think.
We tend to feel obligated to say yes and make others feel happy when at the end of the day it is our life and you can say no to situations that don't make you comfortable or if you're not fully committed to.
6. Take advice from a variety of people in your life.
People have come from different walks of life and have stories to tell that are different from you, listening is the most important trait you can have. Listen to people that have been on this earth longer, listen to children, list to the person who no listens to aswell.
7. Pet more puppies
No explanation, animals just need all the love in the world.
8. Expect your plans to change last minute.
Be flexible, as you get older holding relationships takes a lot more work so you have to be committed to seeing the people you care about.
9. Be more financially responsible with your money starting at a younger age.
Talke about money more, teach yourself about money responsibility so you are not worrying when you get older if you have retirement funds or not. You want to live a secure financial life then start young.
10. Staying at home with a glass of wine and Netflix can be more fun than the club.
It's not all hyped up to be. You save a lot more money, the drinks taste better, and you can watch your favorite shows in your pajamas.
11. You don't stop learning once you get out of school.
You're always learning every day. Also keep your brain sharp by reading, teaching others, and continuing your passion.
12. Your words have a bigger impact on people so be conscious of what you say.
Words can be remembered for a long time by a person and impact their lives, so be conscious of what you say to people that you surround yourself with. The words you say represent yourself.
13. Judgment from others comes from fear
When a person is judging you they are showing their own fears and projecting it on to you, so do not bear that fear onto yourself.
14. Pursue the life that you want
At the end of the day, it's your life so do what makes you happy.
15. It's not the end of the world if you're taking a little longer in the race called life, everyone has a different path
Everyone has a different journey to get to where they want to go. We tend to compare ourselves to what society's standards of where you should be at a certain age when there is no perfect time.
16. Take more pictures of moments
You won't regret it when you're 80 and looking back at old times
17. Open up to your spiritual side.
We all are looking for answers and a deeper connection, whether is God, meditation or Basketball. Connect with your spiritual side so you have a place to find your center in times of need and calmness.
18. You will fail a lot in your twenties and that's okay.
The twenties are a time for failures and learning from that so you can grow to be who you want to be.
19. Go outside in nature more
We are blessed to call this Earth our home and should enjoy what beaches, mountains, springs its has to offer for us.
20. Do your research and stand for what you believe in
Question everything and everyone and fight for injustices to make a change in this world.
21. Get out your comfort zone and learn something new
You will not grow if you do not fight out of your fears and into new possibilites.
22. Put yourself first
You are the most important person because you come into this world alone and leave alone so in order to tkae care of others and to have the life you want you have to put yourself first.
23. Dont compare yourself.
We do not see the full story of other people's lives, we do not see the hardships that they go through so when we compare we tend to think the grass can be greener. Instead of comparing appreciate your life and make your life what you want it to be.
