When you find that person you're meant to spend the rest of your life with, it doesn't necessarily mean it's your love interest/significant other. The person you cant live without; that's your soul mate. Sometimes, if you get lucky like me, your soul mate is your best friend.
My relationship with my best friend started like any good friendship...I hated her. But almost 10 years later, here we are; I can't live without her.
We are more than just best friend goals. Here's why:
We can go weeks without seeing each other
But we are always able to pick up where we were last.
We hype each other up
My best friend is my #1 fan.
Our text conversations are hilarious
We both probably look like crazy people smiling at our phone in the middle of lectures, but we are pretty damn funny.
We have our own language
No one understands us. That's okay, though. "Freene, Fernicus, Benders"
Tagging each other in memes is a daily routine
And then saying, "Omg this is so you."
We get jealous/mad about other friends
Being introduced to a new friend and looking at them like...
When they say they already have plans
But you don't have very many friends so you just sit there like...
We have no secrets
We have no filter. We tell each other EVERYTHING.
We have the worst fights
I love her, even when I hate her. We tell each other we are never going to speak ever again, but an hour later we are like, "I miss you, come back."
We are a part of each others family
We hear, "Did you see what your grandma commented on my picture?" a little too much.
Our dance parties
I still don't know how she twerks so well.
She is my person
My emergency contact and the person who's in charge of my social media account if I die.
We are complete opposites
But that's what makes us great.
She is patient
Because I can be a little extra sometimes.
She's the only person who can calm me down
When I have my mental breakdowns, she's my go-to. And the only person who can tell me I'm being crazy.
She's the first person I tell if I'm going on a date
I tell her his name and where I'm going, just incase I die and no one knows where I am.
We have really cheesy moments
Our friendship revolves around writing cheesy letters and drunk crying in the bathroom about how much we love each other and how lucky we are to have one another as a best friend. - "If someone saw this right now, they'd think we are gay."
I can't live without her
Even though most of the time I come off strong.
We read each others minds
When someone is saying something to us that is complete b.s. and we give each other a "look" or hit each other under the table.
We know we are going to grow old together
Old and bitter. Until death do us part.
Our bfs/gfs 3rd wheel us
No comment necessary.
The maid of honor
There is no one else I want by my side on the best day of my life.
We do nothing together
And it's the best time of our lives. "Want to come over and do nothing?"