I've seen a fair share of relationships between myself and my friends. So, with seeing all those relationships, it's easy to see some red flags. If a guy you are interested in is doing a couple things on this list, it's fair to say he's not the one for you.
- If he only wants to “Netflix and Chill” and never go out in public.
- If he ever takes you to McDonald's.
- If he hits you with the “read.”
- If he doesn’t text you after the first time you hang out.
- If he still talks about his ex or talks to her an excessive amount.
- If he says he’s too busy to hang out but then tweets about being bored.
- If he snapchats you at 3:00 a.m. and it says “WYD?”.
- If you see his ex’s name on his phone and you ask about it and suddenly you’re “crazy” and “need to chill.”
- If he doesn’t have your number saved in his phone.
- OR if your number is saved in his phone under “______ sorority girl” because he doesn’t know your name.
- If he only talks about himself.
- If he doesn’t return any favors.
- If he calls you "fam," "bro," or "dude."
- If he lets you do the walk of shame.
- If he claims he “isn’t ready for a relationship.”
- If he leaves the bar with another girl and he came there with you.
- If he leaves hella early in the morning (before 8:00 a.m.).
- If he falls asleep right after you get home.
- If he only calls or texts you after a night of drinking (stop saying “drunk words are sober thoughts.”)
- If he avoids introducing you to his family or friends.
- If he doesn’t invite you to his fraternity functions even though you’ve taken him to all of yours.
- If he cancels his plans with you a lot.
So, ladies, if you read through and noticed that your boy-toy is doing a couple things on this list:
Cut that sucker loose:
And always remember these two things: