Ah, so it’s time for “new year, new me” or “this is going to be my year.” Time for resolutions and for people to try and change the way they live. Well, I am here to say that I am hopping on that annoying bandwagon. I’ve decided that I am actually going to make 2017 my year. I have literally said that since probably 2010, but never actually went through with it.

So what makes this year different? How do I plan on achieving my goals? I am going to shoot my shot. I am going to actually do what’s best for me and put myself first. In 2016, I let a lot of people walk over me but no, not this year. This year, I’m going to grab the bull by the horns. For me, this means saying no to things I don’t want to do and not getting talked into it later. But it also means saying yes to certain things I necessarily wouldn’t do but get out of my comfort zone.

In 2017, I will be more open with my feelings and tell people how I really feel. I won’t be afraid to express those emotions because they’re nothing to be ashamed of. I will do all things to better myself. Just as Beyoncé said, “I’ma keep running because a winner don’t quit on themselves.” And that’s exactly what I’m going to do, not quit. So in other words, I am going to be Beyoncé. Not really, but still.

I think it’s time that people stand up for what they want that will better their lives. Too many people just do what the crowd is doing, but what if 2017 was the year of originality and bettering yourself. I plan to better myself mentally, spiritually and physically. I have quite a few new year’s resolutions that I want to achieve, and I plan to. I plan to think more positively, let go of mistakes, stay away from toxic people, speak up for myself and know my worth. I think having that mindset can change your entire day, which will eventually change your life.

In 2017, take your shot. Don’t be afraid to stand up for what you want. Make 2017 your year. The best saying I’ve ever heard is “the best is yet to come.” That saying is so true; if 2016 was horrible to you, don’t worry. You haven’t even had your best days yet. Life must still go on throughout the new year, and you must trust that God has got your back. Shoot your shot but let God guide the way. So, go into 2017 with a positive mindset. Be friendly, be compassionate, show love towards others and as Beyoncé said, “slay”.