2016 was full of ups and downs but it’s because of the obstacles, opportunities and accomplishments that I experienced this past year that has me ready to take on 2017.
1.) I don’t need to be afraid to ask for help.
This year was a roller coaster, to say the least. I hold myself to a higher standard and it’s about time that I get back on track and make a life for myself that I can once again be proud of. Recognizing my weaknesses isn’t the issue, it’s admitting to the fact that I need help in order to conquer them that is. I can get through everything that I am facing, but I cannot do it alone. It takes a stronger person to admit they need assistance to succeed than one who doesn’t and fails. Take one day at a time and don’t forget to breathe. Everything will be okay.
2.) I shouldn’t have such high expectations.
I am the type of person that composes the ideal scenario in my head and then when reality strikes, I am often let down. It’s when I don’t have any expectations for something that I am happier with how everything panned out. Not everything is going to go as planned, and in all honesty, that’s one of the beauties of life; something unexpected occurs and you adapt. It’s when I’m blindsided by something happening that I not only have more fun but I learn more about who I am as an individual. I need to trust in the idea that everything happens for a reason and to just enjoy living life in the moment.
3.) Growing apart from people is okay.
People who are no longer an active part of my life helped me get to where I am today, which is something I will be forever grateful for, but constantly blaming myself for the good times coming to an end is pointless. Relationships only work when both parties are contributing. We grew apart from one another because we both grew individually, which isn’t necessarily a negative thing. Watching them continue on with their life without me is tough, but I’m proud of their accomplishments, as I hope they are with mine. It’s hard accepting the fact that some people are only meant to play a small role in your life, especially when you thought they were going to be a main character, but I’m thankful for their part nonetheless. I know that the relationship we once had was what I needed at the time, but is no longer the case today, and that’s okay. They will forever hold a place in my heart, but I’m ready to close that chapter and start anew.
