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20 Thoughts Girls Need To Stop Thinking To Themselves

"I'll never be good enough."

Samantha Kane

Jan 09, 2017

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20 Thoughts Girls Need To Stop Thinking To Themselves

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As girls, we tend to overthink everything, and usually have a constant stream of negative thoughts about ourselves running through our head. I know I do all the time. So I decided to ask some of my friends what were the worst things they often think to themselves and compile a list. How sad is it that the majority of time, we are thinking terrible things about ourselves? I know there are a lot of people that will read this list and be able to relate, which is why I want girls to read this list, and then never, ever say these things to themselves ever again.

1. What is wrong with me?

2. Why am I never enough?

3. God.. I wish I was prettier

4. I wish I looked like her

5. I'll never be good enough

6. He'll never like me

7. What did I do wrong?

8. No one will ever love me

9. I feel like I have no friends

10. Why would he want me when he can have her?

11. People probably think I'm the most annoying person ever

12. What am I even doing with my life?

13. Why am I so hard to love?

14. Yes please let me just imagine every worse case scenario possible

15. I wish I wasn't so fat and actually had a nice body

16. Overthinking the fact that I'm overthinking, cause that's normal

17. Why do I constantly let people walk all over me?

18. It'd be super cool if I could stop stressing myself out

19. I wish I...had a bigger butt/boobs, whiter teeth, longer hair, skinnier waist, abs, clear skin, was taller/shorter, didn't have a muffin top, double chin

20. I'm going to be single forever

YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOU ARE LOVED. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE - don't let anyone, especially yourself, tell you any different.

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"I'll never be good enough."

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2. Why am I never enough?

3. God.. I wish I was prettier

4. I wish I looked like her

5. I'll never be good enough

6. He'll never like me

7. What did I do wrong?

8. No one will ever love me

9. I feel like I have no friends

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17. Why do I constantly let people walk all over me?

18. It'd be super cool if I could stop stressing myself out

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20. I'm going to be single forever

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1. You get excited when the parents purchase season passes to the pool.

2. You've become friends with the stay-at-home moms in town.

3. You get a chance to eat "kid foods" again.

4. You've traded in your cute purse for a large tote bag.

5. You have at least one car seat in your backseat.

6. Their nap time is your happy time.

7. Lunch time can be a disaster.

8. You have to play the same board games repeatedly.

9. You catch yourself using the same lines your parents once told you.

10. Your "mom-mode" kicks in at times.

11. Your heart melts a little when they do something cute.

You'll never find any souvenirs with your name on it

1. You know you are up next when the teacher pauses while taking attendance

2. When “I’m going to do my very best to make sure I know all your names” is said, it may or may be an empty promise

3. “Wow! That sounds so cool! Where is your family from?”

4. You dread when people ask you to repeat your name over and over because it “sounds so cool when you say it”

5. There’s a 50/50 chance that your name will come back either correct or incorrect at Starbucks

6. People try to find shorter, easier nicknames for you instead of calling you by your actual name

7. When someone famous or fictional character shares your name, you get so happy

8. “What’s your name?” “It’s [name]” “I’m sorry, what was it again?”

9. You’ve pretty much seen every misspelling and heard every mispronunciation of your name throughout your life

10. When you find another person with an “ethnic” sounding name, you both get excited

11. Despite the struggles, your name is pretty unique… just like you

Can I be excused for the rest of my life?

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1. “Oh, so you/your family are immigrants!”

2. “Is Puerto Rico near Mexico?”

3. “Do you speak Puerto Rican?”

4. “You look too light/dark to be Puerto Rican.”

5. “Do I need my passport to go to Puerto Rico?”

6. “Geez, you are obsessed with your flag. We get it, you’re Puerto Rican.”

7. “Why are you so loud?”

8. “So does your family know English?”

9. “Oh my god, Puerto Ricans are so spicy.”

10. “So did you eat a lot of tacos?”

11. “Are you Mexican?”

Love hard, every day, and never be ashamed.

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