20 Things I've Learned In 20 Years | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

20 Things I've Learned In 20 Years

In hindsight, twenty years is pretty short but I've learned a lot.

29
20 Things I've Learned In 20 Years
Whitni Duffey

In This Article:

I might still be a "baby" to some but we're all still learning.

You don't have to be the first to apologize.

You are not responsible for how people react to you.

But always apologize when you're wrong. 

You are responsible for what you say and you should always apologize when you've done something wrong.

You don't have to please anyone. 

The only person you should worry about pleasing is yourself.

Family isn't always blood.

I've had friends that are more like family than some of the people I share genes with.

There is nothing wrong with being alone.

Everyone needs to refresh once in a while.

But don't isolate yourself all of the time. 

Everyone needs to refresh ONCE IN A WHILE.

Chunky highlights weren't cool in high school and they aren't now.

Seriously though, who let me walk around like a zebra for half of my high school years?

Life is too short to worry about what people think about you.

Who cares what others think if you like yourself for who you are?

Don't be afraid to take chances.

Life gets too boring if you're stuck in the same old rut.

Don't be afraid to admit you made a mistake.

To quote Hannah Montana, "everybody makes mistakes."

Spend time with the people you care about. 

You're not guaranteed tomorrow.

Even if you hate pictures, take the stinking picture!!

Pictures are worth a thousand words.

Say I love you often.

Even if you're mad, tired, or upset, tell them that you love them.

Confrontation is a part of life.

I know you don't want to talk about it, but it NEEDS to happen.

It's okay not to be okay all the time.

Don't hide how you're feeling. Everyone needs to process.

Try new things!

Step out of your comfort zone and try something new. 9 times out of 10 you'll find out it's not that bad.

Calling is better than texting.

I'd much rather hear someone actually laugh out loud instead of receiving an "lol" text.

You are responsible for your own happiness.

If you can't make yourself happy, no one else can.

Ask for help when you need it.

You shouldn't be ashamed to say you need help.

Take life a day at a time. 

Life is way too short to worry about the tomorrow's you have no control over.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Gilmore Girls
Hypable

In honor of Mother’s Day, I have been thinking of all the things my mom does for my family and me. Although I couldn’t write nearly all of them, here are a few things that moms do for us.

They find that shirt that’s right in front of you, but just you can’t seem to find.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Reasons To Thank Your Best Friend

Take the time to thank that one friend in your life you will never let go of.

4071
Thank You on wooden blocks

1. Thank you for being the one I can always count on to be honest.

A true friend will tell you if the shirt is ugly, or at least ask to borrow it and "accidentally" burn it.

2. Thank you for accepting me for who I am.

A best friend will love you regardless of the stale french fries you left on the floor of your car, or when you had lice in 8th grade and no one wanted to talk to you.

Keep Reading...Show less
sick student
StableDiffusion

Everybody gets sick once in a while, but getting sick while in college is the absolute worst. You're away from home and your mom who can take care of you and all you really want to do is just be in your own bed. You feel like you will have never-ending classwork to catch up on if you miss class, so you end up going sick and then it just takes longer to get better. Being sick in college is really tough and definitely not a fun experience. Here are the 15 stages that everyone ends up going through when they are sick at college.

Keep Reading...Show less
kid
Janko Ferlic
Do as I say, not as I do.

Your eyes widen in horror as you stare at your phone. Beads of sweat begin to saturate your palm as your fingers tremble in fear. The illuminated screen reads, "Missed Call: Mom."

Growing up with strict parents, you learn that a few things go unsaid. Manners are everything. Never talk back. Do as you're told without question. Most importantly, you develop a system and catch on to these quirks that strict parents have so that you can play their game and do what you want.

Keep Reading...Show less
friends
tv.com

"Friends" maybe didn’t have everything right or realistic all the time, but they did have enough episodes to create countless reaction GIFs and enough awesomeness to create, well, the legacy they did. Something else that is timeless, a little rough, but memorable? Living away from the comforts of home. Whether you have an apartment, a dorm, your first house, or some sort of residence that is not the house you grew up in, I’m sure you can relate to most of these!

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments