Twenty. My last year before becoming a full-fledged adult; the first year of the rest of my life. I have lived two decades. I feel old and young at the same time: old enough to impart some wisdom and young enough to be reckless. Here are twenty things I’ve learned in twenty years of life.

1. Everyone’s too busy with their own insecurities to notice yours.
2. It’s not realistic to be close friends with an ex.
3. Love includes timing.
4. Make sure your home has a plunger.
5. Sometimes you don’t need more of a reason beyond “I want to”.
6. Taking initiative can lead to good things.
7. Crying will make you feel better.
8. You won’t get along with everyone.
9. In countries where the denomination for a dollar is a coin, you don’t pelt exotic dancers with coins.
10. If you want to say no, say it.
11. Saying thank you instead of apologizing puts a positive perspective on things.
12. If you want to eat healthy, the vegetarian option may be more interesting than a salad.
13. Remember to give yourself a break.
14. Let go when necessary.
15. Finding time for yourself can be hard.
16. Read the syllabus carefully before the start of classes.
17. Ask questions.
18. The only way to trust someone is to trust them.
19. Sleep is good for you.
20. Plan out your meals and meal times.