In life, we all go through situations that shape us into the people we are going to be for the rest of our lives. Unfortunately, some of these situations are obstacles that we have to learn to overcome - it's inevitable. Everyone has their own set of coping mechanisms that they use to keep pushing forward. For me, one of these outlets has always been music - to say that it has had the power to heal me in some of the most difficult situations would be an understatement. There's just something about throwing some headphones on in the midst of all the stress and chaos that has always been extremely cathartic to me. Here are some lines from just 20 of the songs (straight out of one of my favorite playlists) that have quite literally changed my life!
1. Who You Are - Jessie J
"Don't lose who you are in the blur of the stars
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing
It's okay not to be okay
Sometimes its hard
To follow your heart
But tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising"
2. Fix You - Coldplay
"Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you"
3. Reaper - Sia
"You came to take me away
So close I was to heaven's gates
But no baby, no baby not today
You tried to track me down
You followed me like the darkest cloud
But no baby, No baby not today"
4. Bad Day - Daniel Powter
"Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile, and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down, and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day"
5. How To Save a Life - The Fray
"Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life"
6. Give Me Love - Ed Sheeran
"You know I'll fight my corner
And that tonight I'll call ya
After my blood is drowning in alcohol
I just wanna hold ya
My my, my my
Oh give me love"
7. Skinny Love - Birdy
"And I told you to be patient,
And I told you to be fine
And I told you to be balanced,
And I told you to be kind
And in the morning I'll be with you,
But it will be a different kind
Cause I'll be holding all the tickets,
And you'll be owning all the fines""
8. Daughters - John Mayer
"Fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers
Who turn into mothers
So mothers, be good to your daughters too"
9. Latch - Sam Smith
"Now I've got you in my space,
I won't let go of you
Got you shackled in my embrace,
I'm latching on to you"
10. Home - Daughtry
"I'm going home
To the place where I belong
Where you love has always been enough for me
I'm not running from
No I think you got me all wrong
I don't regret this life I chose for me
But these places and these faces are getting old
So I'm coming home"
11. Stitch By Stitch - Javier Colon
"There and back, there's no doubt
Your touch makes me whole again
I give you all my pieces broken
In your hands, there's nothing that you can't fix
My heart is frayed, my scars are open
So put me back together now
Stitch by stitch"
12. Listen - Beyoncé
"Listen to the song here in my heart
A melody I start, but I will complete
Now I am done believing you
You don't know what I'm feeling
I'm more than what you made of me
I followed the voice you think you gave to me
But now i gotta find my own
My own"
13. A Little Too Much - Shawn Mendes
"Sometimes it all gets a little too much
But you gotta realize that soon the fog will clear up
And you don't have to be afraid
Because we're all the same
And we know that sometimes, it all gets a little too much"
14. Let It Go - James Bay
"I used to recognize myself
It's funny how reflections change
When we're becoming something else
I think it's time to walk away
So come on let it go
Just let it be
Why don't you be you
And I'll be me"
15. Shooting Star - Kari Kimmel
"I learned I'm a shooting star
And no one can change who we are
No one can take that away
I know that I'm good enough, and I know that I'm beautiful
And no one can take that away"
16. Life Is Getting Better - Javier Colon
"Hey, don't you know?
Hey, can't you feel there's good times 'round the corner?
Life is getting better all he time
As long as we're together,
Everything's gonna be alright
I see it
I feel it
I know it
Life is getting better all the time"
17. Let It Be - The Beatles
"When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be
Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be"
18. Someone's Watching Over Me - Hilary Duff
"So I won't give up, no I won't break down
Sooner than it seems, life turns around
And I will be strong, even if it all goes wrong
When I'm standing in the dark I still believe
Someone's watching over me"
19. Lot To Learn - Luke Christopher
"Got your finger on the trigger and you're starin' at the mirror
Don't you shoot, that ain't you now
Cause on the outside you pretendin'
But you hurtin' on the inner
What's the truth, what's the truth now?"
20. Change - Christina Aguilera
"Waiting for a change to set us free
Waiting for the day when you can be you and I can be me
Waiting for hope to come around
Waiting for the day that hate is lost and love is found"