This past week I turned 17. I learned a lot about myself and about growing up when I was 16. I know I still have a lot to learn, but here are 16 things I learned from being 16.
1. Always have a good attitude
A good attitude will allow you to have a good day. If your attitude is bad, you are setting yourself up to have a no good day. Attitude changes everything.
2. Don't be afraid of change
Whether it's with friends, or hairstyles, change is good! At this age, change is inevitable and it happens all of the time. Something positive is likely to come from change, even if you can't see the bright side in the beginning.
3. Take breaks from social media
Social media has the ability to start and spread drama. When it becomes overwhelming, take a break. It is nice to sit down and read a book and not always be on your phone.
4. Dance like nobody is watching
This one is a total cliché, which means it's true. Let go and be yourself, don't worry what others are thinking.
5. Travel more
Traveling allows you to see the world in ways that you've never seen it before. You come back with unforgettable memories, experiences and friends that will last a lifetime.
6. Put yourself first
Your happiness and well-being should be your number one priority over other peoples'.
7. Give everything your all
No matter what you're doing, give it all of your effort. When you put in 110%, you will get more out of whatever it is that you're doing/working for.
8. Enjoy the people and things around you
You never know what you have until it is gone so enjoy it while it is there. Put your phone down, and live in the moment.
9. Stop comparing yourself to other girls
You will never be the other girls so embrace who you are! You are unique and special in your own way and that is why people love you.
10. Roll with the punches
Sometimes, life is unexpected and unplanned. You've got to learn to be okay with last minute changes in set plans.
11. School is not everything
School takes up a lot our time and energy but having time to relax and have fun is very important.
12. SLEEP!
If you're up super late doing homework, stop and go to sleep. Sleep is essential to your health!
13. Treat yo self
If you think you deserve some ice cream for doing well on a test or a new t-shirt for no reason, then so be it. Give in to your temptations every now and then!
14. Not everyone is going to like you
And that is okay! You are not here to please everyone. Just because one person thinks your optimism is annoying does not mean to stop being so optimistic.
15. Smile more
People have always said a smile is worth a thousand words and it is true. A simple smile can turn someone's day around.
16. You still have so much to learn
With age comes knowledge and I know there are still lot of lessons to learn in the future.