Oh, college. They say that it's the best four years of your life. You're able to explore your interests, live semi-(if not fully) independently and begin to experience the world as an adult. As a junior in college, hindsight is 20/20, and there are so many things I wish I knew my freshman year. I'll save you the trouble and outline some of the most beneficial pieces of advice so that your first year of college can live up to its full potential.
1. Make an effort to initiate conversations with the people in your classes.
You never know what kind of connections you may be missing out on if you don't take a moment to talk to those sitting around you. I was under the impression that people would go out of their way to talk to me or to make plans with me, but it doesn't actually work that way. You need to be the one to initiate things!
2. ...Same goes for your roommates and your neighbors.
True life: my freshman year, I didn't make an effort to meet the people living in my building until almost the end of the year. Turns out, my roommates and I loved the people living next door. We regretted not initiating the friendship months earlier.
3. ...And the people you pass while walking to class.
You don't have to say anything: a simple smile or nod will suffice. Being pleasant is much better than avoiding eye contact for fear of an awkward encounter.
2. Join a few clubs or get involved with some organizations.
Not only will this expose you to some great activities or volunteer work, but you can also meet people with similar interests. If you think you would enjoy Greek life, go through sorority/fraternity recruitment!
3. Go to campus events.
Campus events are so much fun! Most students ignore their university's announcement emails, but don't be like them. See what's going on at your school. Go join the fun! Colleges have events for literally everyone!
4. Try things you normally wouldn't have thought to do.
If your college offers cooking seminars, sign up for them! Ever thought to get involved with the international student association? I bet they'd love to have you help out at one of their events. Getting involved with things that didn't immediately stand out to you is a good way to get out of your comfort zone.
5. Go to the gym.
The freshman 15 is so real; don't fall victim to it.
6. Don't order pizza four times a week.
Yes, it's convenient. Yes, it's so good. But limit yourself. Your body and your bank account will hate you if you put the closest Papa Johns on speed-dial.
7. Partying is not all there is to do in college.
Remember that movie nights with friends can be just as much fun (if not more).
8. Actually study.
Remember that the main reason you came to college is to get your degree! Your education should be your priority, and as tedious as it seems, it's worth it.
9. Don't abuse Netflix - go outside instead.
The autoplay "next episode" function can be deadly. Before you know it, 9 hours have passed, and you haven't left your bed.
10. Try to keep in touch with your high school friends.
Just because you're beginning a new chapter in your life doesn't mean you should disregard all your old friends.
11. ...But don't be heartbroken if you all begin to drift apart.
Distance can be hard, and with busy schedules, people don't have time to talk as much anymore.
12. College is not a judgmental environment.
Don't wake up an hour early to do your hair and makeup. Wear an over-sized t-shirt and running shorts instead. Comfort is key!
13. Don't abuse alcohol and drugs.
Drinking until you're vomiting profusely and eventually passing out on a stranger's bathroom floor is not cool, yet you will meet some people who pride themselves for all the times they've abused drugs and alcohol. Be smart and safe.
14. Be nice to your roommates.
Being petty and passive aggressive will not make things any better. Problems are bound to happen, but if you handle them respectfully and tactfully, then the outcome may be better.
15. Be respectful of people who are different than you.
College is a place where you truly get to see diversity in its finest form. Learn from your peers.
16. Stay away from terrible people.
Not everyone has your best interest in mind. If you encounter someone who is into all the wrong things, you don't need to be around them - plain and simple.
