- She was super nice to you from the first day you guys met and you were relieved you wouldn’t have to go through your freshman year alone.
- You guys can stayed up until insane hours of the morning watching old Friends episodes and can always agree on how dumb Ross is. No Ross, you can’t sleep with other women when you’re ‘on a break’.
- She didn’t judge you every time you wanted to go for late night chicken fingers and you could always count on her to get as many as you did, if not more.
- She was a great work out buddy when you needed her to be, and an even better couch potato buddy to lay across from when you were both way too lazy to make it out of bed.
- She knew when to drag you out of bed when you didn’t feel like going out that night, and knew when to slap you across the face when you recommended going out the night before a final.
- People would get annoyed at how obnoxiously obsessed you were with each other on social media and in person.
- She never judged you for never cleaning your side of the room because her side was just as messy.
- She was there for you for every mental breakdown, all the boy trouble, and even for fights with other friends and always gave you supportive responses that were always biased towards you. (Because let's be honest, you never really want to hear advice that doesn't favor you.)
- You could always count on her to go for a late night library session and you never had to walk home alone at night.
- Some nights you guys talked for hours, but other nights you could sit in a comfortable silence doing your own things, which was probably the key to not killing each other by the end of the year.
- You guys wore each other’s clothes more than your own and by the end of the year the “what’s mine is yours” policy became probably a little too relaxed (I’m still missing that teal crop top Julie!!!).
- You could tell her anything and everything, and she’s the only person in the world who would stay up with you until 5 a.m. when you both had class the next day telling each other things that you’ve never felt comfortable telling anyone else.
- She silently laughed through your Skype calls with your family even though any other person would call you and your family crazy and would be moved out by the next day.
- You guys were always and will always be there for each other. She was your mom, your sister, and your best friend when yours were miles and miles away.
- You never want to imagine a life without her because she was by your side during such a pivotal time in your life and when people call her your “ex-roommate” now you get extremely uncomfortable.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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