Being a woman is hard due to what the media puts in our heads. Stop focusing what the media says and start taking it with a grain of salt. I have made a list of keys to success for being a woman in our society. You can take my keys to success with a grain of salt because I don't know everything, and what is best for me may not be best for you — so always keep your best interest in mind.

1. Confidence is silent and sexy.

2. If you buy a pair of sexy tall heels, make sure you know how to walk in them because they won't be sexy if you can't walk in them.

3. Don't wait around for good things to happen. Make good things happen.

4. Do nice things for others, but don't be a people-pleaser.

5. You are never "too" anything.

6. Vulnerability does not come easy, but being vulnerable makes others connect with you better.

7. Wear the revealing outfit if you feel sexy. You should be able to wear what you want.

8. Friends come and go. That's OK. Do not lose them over stupid arguments.

9. Your opinion of yourself is more valuable than others'.

10. Don't strive to be anyone but yourself.

11. Invest in bras, jeans and shoes that actually fit.

12. When finding clothes, remember that size is just a number and does not define you.

13. Live life outside of your comfort zone.

14. Live a life full of mistakes, but always learn from your mistakes.

15. Don't ever share everything you know.