14 Struggles Of Growing Up On Long Island And Going To College Out Of State | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

14 Struggles Of Growing Up On Long Island And Going To College Out Of State

I live on Long Island, not in Long Island...

5504
14 Struggles Of Growing Up On Long Island And Going To College Out Of State
lishore.org

The thing about Long Island is that when college comes around, people can't wait to go explore the world outside of the little bubble we grew up in. Some people stay relatively close to home while still venturing out, and other people go across the country. Although there are numerous reasons why going to an out-of-state college was the best decision, there are many things that are very different, and can be difficult for our Long Island hearts to adjust to.

1. The pizza doesn't compare.

2. Long Island bagels are irreplaceable too.

Yes, it is the water.

3. People don't know "The City" means New York City.

If you're from LI, when you say "The City," everyone knows what you're talking about, but outside of Long Island, it doesn't necessarily mean New York City. Going to college far from New York City, when you say "The City" you may be faced with the simple "what?" question many times...

4. There is a thing called the Long Island accent.

Once you start talking to people from different areas, the first thing they'll point out is that you, in fact, have an accent.

5. People will ask you if you know the Long Island Medium.

Uhhh...No.

6. They will also ask if you know someone they know from Long Island.

Sorry, I don't know your distant cousin's neighbor's friend's dog walker's boyfriend who grew up on Long Island.

7. Most people did not go to sleep-away camp.

Most people did not spend seven to eight weeks of the summer in the mountains at a sleep-away camp, so they don't understand your camp stories, camp drama, camp relationships, or love of color war. If you bring up camp, you will most likely be met with a confused stare... unless of course you attend a Long Island populated school.

8. There probably won't be a beach 10 minutes away.

9. Most people don't know the wonder that is Ralph's Italian Ices.

So they probably won't understand your excitement when you realize that when you go home at the end of the semester, Ralph's will be open for the summer!

10. It will be hard to find a diner open at all hours.

Every state has their own way of satisfying that 3 a.m. craving though, don't worry. Down in North Carolina, CookOut is always the move in the late hours, so your diner craving will still be satisfied!

11. People are nice just because.

Before you get all defensive, yes Long Islanders aren't all mean; we're just a bit more tough-skinned. But this is a different kind of nice I'm talking about, and it definitely takes a few doors being held open to get used to, but it's awesome.

12. You're going to have to explain that upstate New York isn't the same.


Long Island and upstate New York are two completely different worlds, so you'll probably have to explain to people who tell you they're family is from upstate New York, that it really just isn't the same.

13. Everything elsewhere is a lot more spread out.

We somehow fit more than 7.75 million people on an island that's about 118 miles long, so it gets a bit crowded sometimes...

And perhaps one of the biggest struggles of going to a college out of state:

14. There isn't everything you can possibly need within a two-mile radius of your home.

The beauty of Long Island is that you can get a bagel, Chinese food, pizza, ice cream, your nails done, a bank, a hair salon, a school, or a deli within a mere mile or two of your house.

Being a Long Islander and getting out of New York for college definitely comes with some struggles, but in the end it is an amazing experience and makes you realize how your heart will always belong to your home, on(not in) Long Island.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Disney magic for New Year!

The "Happiest Place on Earth" has a lot of characters with some pretty great advice.

3937
Disney magic kingdom castle on new years
StableDiffusion

Disney movies are well known and very popular in today's world. Although many people appreciate the plot and the storyline, not many people appreciate the wisdom these characters possess. Every Disney movie has unique advice that can be applied to everyday life. Here are 11 Disney quotes to help start your New Year off right:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

40 Gift Ideas for the Indecisive

It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. But also a time of stressing over the perfect gift.

118406
Christmas gifts around a tree
StableDiffusion

It's officially December. There is less than a month of 2024, and I still feel like yesterday was summer. Now comes the merriest time of the year, the Christmas season.

Everyone has been waiting for this time of year since mid-October (which is way too early, in my opinion) or before. It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. A lot of times when I ask friends and family what they want, I get a lot of "I don't know" or "I don't care."

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Bucket List To Live In The Now

Find excitement in your life and start exploring wherever you are right here, right now.

628
mu bucket list

I was sitting at my cubicle, now that I am an adult, looking at the rain pouring down on the windowsill, bumming on life, wishing for the rain to just stop for a full day.

There are moments where we count down the hours until work is over and how many more days till the weekend, and this many weeks until something exciting. Or something like that? Well, I was bumming because my next day off from work is not until Memorial Day weekend, which is not until the end of May. And since this is my first year out of college being a “real person,” I am totally missing the winter, spring and summer breaks. I am sure all of us have felt this way even if just for a hot minute…

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Ways To Survive Finals As Told By Leslie Knope

Because you know you're going to be stressed out, and Leslie knows exactly how to survive.

461
Everything hurts and I'm dying

So finals are on their way. That's right everybody, finals are about to start.

But hey, don't panic. Start getting your affairs in order and prepare for a week of hell. Here's a few things Leslie Knope wants you to do to make your finals week just a little bit less stressful:

Keep Reading...Show less
Kent State University
Great Value Colleges

If you go to or went to Kent State, then more than likely you have done or will do some of these things.

1. You’ve slipped and fallen on the ice at least once.

The winters at Kent are brutal, and while the heated sidewalks and some great snow boots are always a help, there’s no chance you won’t bust it on the ice at least once in your four plus years at school.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments