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14 Situations That Make People With Social Anxiety Scream

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Rodney Garrett Coleman

Jul 25, 2016

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14 Situations That Make People With Social Anxiety Scream

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Short answer, EVERYTHING. But, here are just a few moments that are extremely taxing.

1. The awkward moment between ”Hello” and “Goodbye.”

Talking to someone is the most anxiety causing thing.... ever. Well maybe beside being around people in the first place.

2. Ordering food.

I feel like I spend twice stuttering as I do actually ordering. There are just so many choices and so many opportunities to mess up! Plus the added anxiety caused by human interaction. No thanks; I’ll use the ordering app.

3. Waiting in line at the store.

It’s the worst. Absolute torture. There are people in front of you, people behind you, and a teller staring and judging all your choices. Look, I know I have problems but this is honestly just awful.

4. When teachers ask you to introduce yourself to the class.

Two cool facts about me? I hate public speaking and I hate all of you.

5. Texting someone first.

What if they haven’t texted me because they hate me? What if I text them and they decided to hate me? What if I’m distracting them from doing something fun because I’m needy and stupid? What if I miss spell something?

6. Excusing oneself to use the restroom.

If I take too long they’ll think I’m pooping but what if I need to poop… Can people hear me peeing? What if they think I made the smell in here? Someone help me!

7. Hugs.

Just body contact and awkward silences… Like I love hugging, it feels nice but if I don’t know you and you randomly come up and hug me please don’t judge me when I act like a fish out of water.

8. When someone isn’t really a friend but more than an acquaintance.

We say hi in passing and like each others statuses… does that mean I can text you about what I ate for breakfast or nah?

9. Sarcastic people.

Are they joking or do they really hate me… I can’t tell! Help!

10. Group projects.

More interaction than I ever signed up for. Save me.

11. Ending conversations.

Is it rude to just walk away? Probably… Do I hug them? Are we close enough to hug? Do I actually want human contact? Why is this so difficult?

12. Calling people.

Funny story time: I’m dyslexic and was assigned the task of ordering the pizza. Well I called the number and they kept hanging up on me and I got very frustrated and screamed, “I just want to order a damn pizza” and the person on the other end just goes, “this is a paint shop” and hangs up. I still get sweaty just thinking about it.

13. Sweaty palms.

Sweating because you’re nervous, nervous because you’re sweaty. It’s a vicious cycle.

14. Going out.

Sure I want to go clubbing with you but I'm not going to. I'm going to stay inside where I'm safe with my five cats and netflix subscription.

I’m sure I could go on because just about everything pertaining to being a functioning person makes me an anxiety ball but I guess that’s why I’m diagnosed with social anxiety! So, good luck out there my fellow anxious pals! We will survive even through awkward minute-long hugs.

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14 Situations That Make People With Social Anxiety Scream

Welcome to Hell which surprisingly looks a lot like calling for a pizza.

1. The awkward moment between ”Hello” and “Goodbye.”

2. Ordering food.

3. Waiting in line at the store.

4. When teachers ask you to introduce yourself to the class.

5. Texting someone first.

6. Excusing oneself to use the restroom.

7. Hugs.

8. When someone isn’t really a friend but more than an acquaintance.

9. Sarcastic people.

10. Group projects.

11. Ending conversations.

12. Calling people.

13. Sweaty palms.

14. Going out.

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For those long nights that turn into mornings when the struggle is real.

1. Walk in motivated and ready to rock

2. Disappointed you let it get this bad

3. Distracted: When a 10-Minute Break Becomes an Hour

4. When the Yearning for Sleep Sneaks Up

5. In the words of Lorelai Gilmore "Coffee, Coffee, Coffee"

Oh, so done.

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

1. When it's December 1 and you have seven things due, three exams, and haven't slept in three days.

2. So you stress.

3. And cry.

4. Then call your mom to cry some more.

5. After the pep talk, you feel determined to get everything done.

6. But, now you're tired.

7. And really hungry.

8. Suddenly, it's 2 a.m. and you have only written three sentences and your paper is due in the morning.

9. You've made it to Friday... somehow.

10. Then Sunday hits and you find yourself back at the Lib.

11. So you cry some more.

12. But, you fight through the tears to get everything done because you're determined.

13. In the end, you feel on top of the world because you made it through the last week of class alive.

14. But, now it's finals week so good luck.

"I want to thank Google, Wikipedia, and whoever else invented copy and paste. Thank you."

1. I'm so tired. I need a nap. Maybe I can sleep with my eyes open in class? Or pretend I'm not napping?

2. We have a test today? Why didn't anyone tell me? Did I know this?!

3. Can I quit school yet? It's only October, and I need a vacation.

4. The struggle is so real.

5. I'm so broke. SOS.

6. Stressed? Eat everything you own in your pantry and stuff your face with all your feelings.

7. "Did we have anything due in class today? Homework? Quiz? Test?" "Not that I know of..."

8. I need food. Where is the closest place to get food? I need it stat.

9. This is the longest day of my life. I need a drink, or two, or three.

10. Sleep? What is sleep? What a foreign concept.

11. When someone suggests going and studying in the library, let alone studying in general.

12. When the cafeteria or student center is packed and you can't find a seat anywhere so you literally have to sit in an abandoned corner.

13. When you see someone you used to hook up with. They see you, and approach you; so you have to pretend like everything is normal.

14. When you get your exam and realize you didn't study as much as you should have.

15. When you crush it on an exam or paper that you totally bullshitted.

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17. When the professor announces you have a project due the following week with no instruction on what it's on and how to do it.

18. Is it Friday yet? Where's the weekend when you need it most?

19. It's freezing in here. I feel like I'm sitting in an igloo. I should have brought a jacket or worn long pants.

20. Did I remember my book? Damn, I forgot the book, and of course I need it for that quiz in class.

21. I would pay a million dollars to not go to class today; or actually never again.

22. I need a hoverboard to ride to class. Maybe then I wouldn't be running 15 minutes late to class every day.

23. Oh she/he's cute! I wonder if they're single. Who are they texting? They're BF/GF? I wonder if they think I'm cute. Could they be a potential new bae?

24. Why is there never any parking? I pay thousands of dollars a year for one parking spot to be open.

25. When it feels like you've been in class for an hour and you look at your phone and it has only been five minutes (I'm crying on the inside).

26. When the professor asks if there are any more questions at the end of class and someone raises their hand.

27. When you get assigned the most incompetent group of people possible for a group project.

28. I need a comfort dog so I can avoid all life and school responsibilities.

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