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13 Signs That Prove Your Relationship Isn't Just Happy, It's Healthy

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13 Signs That Prove Your Relationship Isn't Just Happy, It's Healthy

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There is millions of different types of relationships in the world that couples share.

But the most important relationship is not only just a happy one but a HEALTHY one.

If you're in a happy relationship but it is not healthy, then, not to push any buttons—but you need to reevaluate. A happy one could last a long while but having a healthy one, it will last forever.

BUT if you are in a happy and healthy one, here is a few signs that proves that you are:

1. Understanding one another is easy

You get each other's language.

2. You trust each other with everything

That includes your heart.

3. Letting each other hang with friends

Besides hanging out with you, it is good to have a girls/guys night out.

4. Being open with your feelings

Hiding is not a term you both know. You are not scared to tell each other how you really feel.

5. Not afraid of being BRUTALLY honest

Sometimes we need some tough love even if we don't want to hear it and we give it right back BUT when it is necessary and the timing is right. We all need a little push and shove to get through this crazy life.

6. Not only is there romance, there is a friendship too

Romance is nice and all but having a friendship within the relationship is the best. There is nothing better than being in love with your best friend.

7. Giving each other space

When you both need it. But space, space can be a good thing. Space gives you both time to miss each other.

8. Having arguments is H.E.A.L.T.H.Y

It shows that you both care about one another. But, having arguments every once in a while is healthy but NOT all. the. time.

9. You value each other as a person

Which means you respect each other and the person that you both are.

10. Sharing is caring and caring is sharing

That's right. You share foods, drinks, sweatshirts (for the girls), anything, you name it, you all share it.

11. You guys don't play the lying game

Lying is not an option. Be honest even if it will hurt one another. Being honest is SO much better than lying. In a healthy relationship, YOU. CAN. NOT. LIE.

12. Supporting each other is a MUST

It comes naturally between you two.

13. And of course, loving each other unconditionally

Nothing can stand between you and your love. Your love is unconditional.

Being happy together amazing, but remember your relationship has to be healthy for it to work out in the long run.

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Yes, having some arguments is HEALTHY.

1. Understanding one another is easy

2. You trust each other with everything

3. Letting each other hang with friends

4. Being open with your feelings

5. Not afraid of being BRUTALLY honest

6. Not only is there romance, there is a friendship too

7. Giving each other space

8. Having arguments is H.E.A.L.T.H.Y

9. You value each other as a person

10. Sharing is caring and caring is sharing

11. You guys don't play the lying game

12. Supporting each other is a MUST

13. And of course, loving each other unconditionally

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1. When you get your acceptance letter

2. When you try to figure out how class enrollment works

3. When it’s move in day

4. When you arrive on campus and see all of the attractive people

5. FROG Week

6. When you find your squad

7. When you visit DHall (RIP) or EHall for the first time

8. When you take on way too many credits

9. When you go to your first party at JMU

10. When the rival school shows up for the homecoming game (or any game really)

11. Sunday Brunch

12. When you see the infamous “preacher” for the first time

13. The first snow day

14. Madipalooza

15. When finals week rolls around

16. When you have to say goodbye

17. And when you finally get to go back

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1. Your family and friends ask what you want for your birthday, so you give them a list of options.

2. You're super excited about your birthday the week before.

3. Your family flies in town to celebrate with you.

4. Your siblings wake you up.

5. Your friends are so excited to be with you on your big day.

6. If you work, your office might throw a party for you.

7. For your actual party, you plan a small get-together with close family and friends ...

8. ... or large celebration with everyone you know.

9. You eat the best meal you've had in weeks.

10. You devour the first piece of cake proudly.

11. You embarrass yourself somehow.

12. You get the present you really wanted but thought no one would get you.

13. You are a little sad about getting older.

14. That feeling wears off and you realize how happy you are to have family and friends to celebrate this day with you.

15. The morning after your birthday looks something like this.

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1. Communicating via email can be awkward.

2. Appointments usually accompany weird looks.

3. Introducing yourself to someone is never without a hitch.

4. You’ve probably thought about changing your name.

5. You’re often asked why you have the name you do.

6. You get excited when you meet someone of your gender with your name.

7. You feel awkward when you meet someone of the opposite gender with your name.

8. You’ve had someone say to you, “I knew a [your name], but they were [your opposite gender].”

9. You’ve heard a bad joke/pick-up line or two about your name before.

10. People are surprised when they see you.

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