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13 Great Things That Happen When Your Parents Love Your Boyfriend

He becomes part of the family.

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13 Great Things That Happen When Your Parents Love Your Boyfriend
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Bringing a boy home to mom and dad can be scary. Are they going to like him? Is he going to like them? There is a lot of pressure on this very important first impression, but if they are able to wow them, a wonderful relationship between your parents and your boyfriend can start for life.

1. They get excited when they know he's coming over

Saying he's coming over is never met with, "again?" They don't really care how much he is around because they genuinely enjoy his company.

2. A conversation can be had without you there, and it's not awkward

You can run to the bathroom or go do some work and leave your parents and him together and they'll be able to hold a really great conversation. You don't have to worry about it being awkward if you're gone.

3. They remember details about him

My mom remembers my boyfriend's favorite candy better than I do. When you care about someone, you remember the little things, so it is clear they care about him a lot.

4. They ask about him

If they haven't seen him in a while, they'll always ask how he's doing. They'll ask how work is, or what is take is on something happening in the sports world. They genuinely want to know how he is doing.

5. They pretty much assume you'll be together forever

They reference when you're getting married, your future kids and your life down the line without hesitation.

6. He's invited to family events

There's nothing better than your two favorite worlds colliding. Whether it is a dinner with just the intermediate family or a cookout with the whole gang, the feeling of him not only being invited but it being second nature to invite him is amazing.

7. And your extended family already loves him because of how your parents talk about him

Even before your aunts and uncles and cousins get to meet him, they have a really good idea of how great of a guy he is because he's never talked negatively about.

8. They talk positively about him when he's not around

You always know they aren't just being nice to his face because of how they talk about him when it's just you. They never have a bad thing to say about him.

9. They probably text him out of the blue on occasion

Whether they have a question or just want to make sure you're doing okay, it is really sweet to see the friendship they've formed outside of you.

10. And get him really good Christmas and birthday gifts

They don't just text him Happy Birthday or Merry Christmas, they brainstorm and buy him things they know he will truly like.

11. They always welcome him into their home

When they know he's coming, they'll set up a bed for him and order a pizza. They are always so welcoming.

SEE ALSO:12 Signs You're A Member Of Your Best Friend's Family

12. They always have a hug or a handshake when he leaves

Your boyfriend never just says goodbye to your parents. He'll shake your dad's hand and hug your mom. They tell him to drive safe and let them know when he gets home safely, just like they do for you.

13. And finally, they already see him as part of the family

He may be your boyfriend, but your parents consider him part of the family. From buying him gifts to inviting him to all your family affairs, he has already fit himself into your family. And that's the greatest feeling of them all.

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