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12 Signs You've Found Your Person

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12 Signs You've Found Your Person

There comes a time in your life when you meet someone who lights up the room when they walk in. They are someone that you feel those fuzzy warm feelings about. You know... you're person. Here are a couple of signs that you have met them, so keep 'em around!

1. They believe in you.

This is something I've found to be so important! Your partner not only supports your dreams and aspirations but also encourages you to take the risks. They tell you "yeah, let's move if we need to!" or things like, "you have to work long hours? That's ok, I will see you when you get home." Then when you get home there's dinner waiting and a relaxing night set up.

2. They accept you.

I know this sounds so cheesy but it's true. Someone who wants to change you or "fix" you are not worth your time. You should be accepted for the beautiful person God made you. Your person will do that, no questions asked!

3. They love on you.

Now this isn't a PDA thing. To be honest I hate PDA. It actually bugs me to see couples all over each other basically making out in public. Any who, being loved on is what I see as just simply being hugged or kissed on the cheek. The little gestures like hand holding and what not make you feel special.

4. There isn't awkward silence.

There are plenty of times when my husband and I just sit together. We are either both doing our separate things such as mr writing or reading or him looking at dream homes or designing one! But we don't have to talk. It isn't awkward when we just sit in silence, it's comfortable.

5. You don't care about how you look when you eat.

Don't lie, we have all been guilty of this!! You go out on a date and you frantically search the menu to find something that won't make you look like a hungry caveman when you eat it. Your person makes you feel so comfortable that you don't worry about things like that. You eat those super messy chili dogs and you kill them!!

6. You can be weird.

This isn't really something that a lot of people experience, but I'm kinda weird and my husband totally embraces every bit of it. He let's me act a fool and so the most random dumb things and doesn't judge me for it.

7. They act silly with you.

This kinda goes hand in hand with the one before it. Your person will act silly with you and sing songs way too loud in the car. They will tell corny jokes or laugh at the corny jokes you tell!

8. You're on the same wave length.

You finish each others thoughts or sentences. There comes a time almost every single day when I'm trying to think of something or explain something and my husband is always finishing what I'm trying to say or already knows what I'm explaining.

9. You can't stay mad.

Every relationship has disagreements, even when you're on the same wave lengths you don't always agree on everything. Arguments come along sometimes you get mad at each other, but even when you're mad there's no one else you'd want sitting next to you being mad also!

10. They try new things with you.

So your person may have never ate sushi or tried a salad before you came along but you best believe they are going to love that salad when y'all go to dinner. Mostly because they loved it all along, they just needed a little push into trying something new.

11. They include you in future plans.

No this isn't like oh let's take a beach trip this summer. It's like planning for the future. A home, dogs, the landscape of the house! All of the plans include you, it's not like oh you may or may not be around this time next year.

12. They show you every day how much you mean to them.

It doesn't have to be a big present or anything like that. But your person is going to make you feel special and loved every day. They are going to always be proving to you how much you mean to them.

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