It isn't always easy to spot a player, but when you do, you should run as fast as you can. If you're a little skeptical of whether or not your man is a player, read on.
1. He is begging for your nudes.
Look, if he repeatedly asks you for nude photos, he has no idea about boundaries and does not care as to how his constant efforts for them make you feel. He is also lazy, if he wants to see that side of you, he needs to be a real man and put in the effort it takes to earn that sensual side of you. Plain and simple.
2. He doesn't want to "label" it.
If he says things like "I don't like labels" or some other excuse like that, he doesn't care enough to make you his girlfriend. And, if he doesn't care to make you his girlfriend but still wants to have all of those girlfriend privileges, he doesn't respect you or want to put a whole lot of effort into you. That should clearly tell you how much effort he deserves for you to put in- none. Walk away.
3. He is constantly texting other girls.
If his phone is blowing up with Snapchats and text messages from ladies who aren't his family or really close friends, it's safe to assume he is constantly chatting them up and doing the same thing he does with you, with them. you're a prize to win, not another stuffed animal to add to his collection.
4. He is disrespectful toward his mother.
If he would blow his mother off to get with you, he doesn't respect women. Plain and simple. His mother is the one who gave birth to him and made sure he was taken care of all of his life, and if he would be okay with disrespecting her for the possibility of sex, he is not going to be able to respect you in the way you deserve.
5. He defines every single one of his exes as "crazy."
No, it's not ironic that the past 10 to 15 girls have all left with a bad taste in their mouths. It's a pattern and if he just blows it off as they are "crazy" he obviously has no sense of how his actions affect other people.
6. He does not want to be seen in public with you.
If every date is at your house or his and the thought of going somewhere that others could see you together is unbearable to him, he is hiding something or doesn't want you to feel too special. You're not his Call-Girl and you shouldn't be treated as such.
7. His favorite date idea is you coming over and "watching" Netflix with him.
If his favorite date idea is him not having to put in any work to have you race to his side and give it up, he doesn't respect you. It's okay if once or twice before you start to date he might not feel good and would rather just cuddle and watch movies, but if it's a constant thing, you can figure out what he's feeling and it's not just "tiredness."
8. He says things like "you look tired" or "you look different" when you are not wearing makeup.
A MAN would never point out a change in your appearance without makeup in such a way that could possibly hurt your feelings like that. I don't care what idea he has in his head that women are supposed to look like, you don't point things like that out on a woman you care about.
9. He ignores your texts but has no problem letting you know he is on social media.
If he likes your selfie and tweets but doesn't respond to your text about hanging out, he doesn't care if you know he is ignoring you. It's time for you to ignore him.
10. He has no ambition.
If he hates his job and is constantly complaining but makes no effort to do anything about it, he literally could care less about things that are supposed to matter and that includes you.
11. His friends are all f*ckboys too.
If John, Josh, and Kyle are all just as rude and he doesn't say anything at all, he is okay with it and acts the same way, guaranteed.
12. He says things that he thinks you want to hear.
When you're ranting about what your mom said when you were bickering back and forth about what you want for dinner and he contently says "what a bitch"...leave him. You may be mad at your momma but he should never be able to call her a bitch or say anything else mean about her. It's YOUR MOMMA!
