11 Ways To Break Through 'The Awkward Stage' And Bond With Your Roommate | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

11 Ways To Break Through 'The Awkward Stage' And Bond With Your Roommate

It's always awkward at first.

264
11 Ways To Break Through 'The Awkward Stage' And Bond With Your Roommate
Emily Jayjohn

Even when we decide to move in with a friend, there is still some form of "awkward moment" of being unsure of ourselves. This is untested waters in your friendship and your not sure exactly what it’s like to live with them. You see a whole new side of someone. In order to get through some of the awkwardness, here are some ways to bond with your friends and roommates.

1. The floor is lava.

This is especially fun to do at inconvenient times like when they are doing their laundry and you have hoarded every blanket and pillow on the couch with you so that they have no escape. Trying to navigate your home without touching the floor is a surprising way to bond with people.

2. Build a fort in your living room.

Honestly, who doesn’t enjoy building a fort, it was the closest thing to a castle we could get when we were kids.

3. Have a sword fight.

I mean if you built the fort, you might as well pretend it’s a castle and have a good old fashioned sword fight. It’s a great way to bond and, according to ‘How I Met Your Mother,’ solve disagreements.

4. Declare war.

I once had a silly string fight in the park with my best friend while my older sister watched and took pictures. We later used those for our joint graduation party invitations. Everyone had a good time.

5. Intentionally get lost.

Then try and navigate your way home without a GPS. I did this with my best friend once; our 20-minute drive turned into a 45-minute drive. There was a lot of yelling, wrong turns and uncontrollable laughter, but we did eventually make it home.

6. Take a class together.

This way you always have someone to study with and if the class is unbearable then you go through hell together.

7. Roommate nights.

In my apartment, we do bad alcohol and anime night. We try an alcohol that can be nothing but awful and watch an anime series together. This is our version of roommate night and we think it’s the best, but feel free to try your own version of this.

8. Have your own personal book club.

Pick a book to read together and talk about it. Get emotionally invested in characters together and when they inevitably die because you like them then suffer together.

9. Take turns cooking dinner.

It’s definitely an experience if you keep trying different recipes, but you learn more about the other person through this.

10. Plan an outing together.

My roommate and I go to a coffee place in town every Sunday for a few hours. Our schedules are so different we almost never see each other, getting coffee every Sunday gives us a chance to catch up on each other's lives. You could go shopping, go to a lake, creek, or beach depending on where you live; just spend some time catching up on each other's lives.

11. Sing.

Loud and proud, in each others company. If you are comfortable singing terribly in front of each other to your Spotify playlist, then you are true friends.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

181355
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

8254
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

453215
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

23743
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments