For anyone that knows a little bit about "Gossip Girl" or to anyone that has binged watched "Gossip Girl," it may seem like that the "Upper East Side" life is something that no one can relate to. I just finished binge watching the series (yes, I do feel empty and alone now), but while watching I did notice some ways the show can be relatable for us non- Constance or St. Jude bred students! Enjoy!
Hello all Upper East Siders, here are 11 things we learned from Gossip Girl!
(Warning: Spoilers)
1. Friendships are everything
The one thing I noticed in every episode while watching "Gossip Girl" is how important friendship is. Regardless of how many times Blair and Serena tried to sabotage each other to Chuck screwing over Nate by sleeping with Blair, their friendships survived every curve ball that came their way.
2. Relationships are comlpicated
Whether you have/want a roller-coaster twisted love like Chuck and Blair or a cute puppy love like season one Serena and Dan, "Gossip Girl" taught us that every relationship will have its ups and downs. How you react to those adversities is what's important. Anyone who watched the show envied one relationship. All the relationship drama also taught us that fairy tales are only real in movies. You need to make your relationship work for you.
3. Gain independence
Blair Waldorf knew that she had to make a name for herself before she could be with Chuck. She was not interested in just being "Mrs. Bass." She wanted to be successful on her own. She had to put the love of her life on hold while she tried to figure out what she wanted to do with her life. We can learn so much here, never settle. You have to do what will make you happy, first.
4. Be yourself
Remember Dan and Serena's first "real" date where he tried to impress her at that fancy French restaurant. It was a complete flop. Once he brought her to his side of town and his favorite spots, things instantly turned around. They ended up having a great time and a great first date. Being yourself can be challenging when you want to impress others, but take a lesson from Dan (it pays off in the end).
5. Love will always find a way
I'd be lying if I said I never questioned Chuck and Blair ending up together. I mean I always knew they loved each other but for a while there I didn't think it was possible to take down Bart Bass and Blair had that huge issue with that fashion show. But thankfully they survived all of that. This relationship was totally my favorite of the show and I was so obsessed with them, they were the perfect judgmental couple. Can you blame me? I mean look at them. (Also did anyone else notice that Chuck's tie and pocket square always matched Blair's outfit?) It took a lot out for them to finally open up to each other, but once they did they never looked back.
6. Tights are not pants
Queen B was a style icon. I couldn't agree more with her when she said tights are not pants. I also interpret this as yoga pants not being pants either. Sorry not sorry.
7. Confidence is key
Every single person in "Gossip Girl" was so confident it bordered cocky (I'm looking at you, Chuck). Their confidence is something to be admired. They rarely doubted their abilities and when they did their friends were there to reassure them. I mean if Chuck ever needed to explain himself his response was "I'm Chuck Bass" if that confidence isn't to be admired, I don't know was is.
8. Some people will change, and that's OK.
Throughout the course of this series almost everyone changed in some way. Whether it was moving from Brooklyn to the Upper East Side or going from a Lonely Boy to dating Serena van der Woodsan, going from a party girl to a put together high schooler, going from an immature high school boy to a successful business owner. Everyone changes and there's nothing you can do but change with it.
9. Always dress to impress
This show wouldn't be the same without their superb fashion. This show taught me to dress my best all the time. You always want to make a good first impression. I mean you won't fully succeed on looks alone, you also need to be a decent human being, but it's important.
10. People will gossip
There will be people your whole life who will talk about you and gossip, you can't let this get you down and distracted from your goal in life. So, let them talk just do what makes you happy.
11. We all love a good breakfast
You can almost guarantee that Rufus was somewhere making breakfast in literally every episode. But hey, I didn't mind, every episode left me wanting waffles. I mean it felt like he became obsessed with them at one point mid-series because it was literally the only thing he did while wondering where Lily was. We understand, Rufus, we understand.
Here an extra picture of Chuck and Blair because they're just perfect
xoxo
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