When people hear the phrase "good guy," there are most likely two images that come to mind. The first image is very basic at its' roots, depicting the common theme of the good guy vs. the bad guy. For example, Batman vs. the Joker, policeman vs. criminal, or simply hero vs. villain. In short, one is good, and one is bad. The second image goes more in depth and consists of the physical, mental, emotional, social, and even spiritual aspects of why a good guy is considered a good guy. For example, Batman is considered a good guy because he stands for justice and strives to put the bad guys in detainment- where they belong. These good guys have been around for a while, yet seem to be a hidden rarity in the 21st century. How do we spot one? Lets find out!
1. His moral compass never waivers
It does not matter if his pals, a paycheck, or a ladies' perfume lure him into steering off course. A good guy will always strive to take the higher road, and he will take the righteous path, that will not compromise his morals or integrity.
2. He is trustworthy
A good guy is a trusted member of his family, friends, neighborhood, workplace, and any professional/recreational organization that he is a part of. If he says he has someone's back, then he does. If he says he will get the job done, he will get it done- the right way, or he will find someone who is able to help him get the job done.
3. He is loyal
A good guy will breathe, bleed, and sweat for his pack. If his pack needs him, then he is there. No questions will ever be asked.
4. He is helpful
A good guy will always strive to help those in need and less privileged than himself. Whether it means helping out on a large-scale community service project; or simply helping his mother carry some boxes up the steps, his services are always available.
5. He is friendly
A good guy always strives to have a smile on his face when interacting with others. Even when he is having a bad day, a good guy will do his best to make sure his mood and attitude do not undermine or compromise his interactions with others. If he disagrees with someone, he will do his best to act in a professional and diplomatic manner.
6. He is courteous
A good guy always practices the manners his mother or father taught him while he was a young boy. He respects his elders and authoritative figures by responding with "yes ma'am" or "yes sir" at all times unless otherwise noted. He goes about his day to day activities and interactions in a civil and composed manner.
7. He is obedient
A good guy makes it a priority to listen and understand what is being asked of him when given an order or task to complete. It does not matter if the task comes from a president or janitor, a man or woman, or a rich or poor individual. If a good guy is asked to do something, he does it, so long as his integrity and morals are not compromised.
8. He walks away from a potentially violent altercation, but his gloves are not permanent
A good guy knows that silence is always a greater weapon than his fists. However, he will not hesitate to get his hands dirty when one of his pack or an innocent stranger is in danger and cannot defend themselves. He has a duty to stand for justice and to protect others.
9. He marches to the beat of his own drum
A good guy will not let others decide who he is or what he stands for. While he respects the opinions of others, a good guy understands that at the end of the day, he is the only one who truly knows what is best for himself.
10. He leads by example
A good guy understands that words (and good intentions) mean nothing. He understands that his actions define who he is, and who follows him, and how he will be remembered by others is an important defining characteristic of his character.
11. He internalizes the taste of humble pie
A good guy is not ashamed of his accomplishments and skills, but he does not boast. He is neither arrogant or cocky. He is not full of himself or self-centered. He does good deeds for the smiles, tears, and laughs, and not for material gain. He always strives to improve himself physically, mentally, and emotionally.