We all have to go through Freshmen year of college eventually. It is either a blessing or a curse but here are 100 things I learned during my freshmen year that will most likely help you.
- Saying goodbye to your dad is actually super hard
- Saying goodbye to your mom is actually way harder
- Saying hello to a new environment is actually pretty hard as well
- Professors don’t want you to fail
- If you fail, YOU did something wrong not them
- Okay but some professors do really suck
- Take every volunteer opportunity you can (even if it's for a free T-shirt)
- Regardless of how much snow is on the ground you better get your butt out of bed and go! (every class you miss is money lost)
- Jeans is indeed dressing up
- Do your homework as soon as you get it because you will get more
- If something doesn’t work out right away, don’t worry, it WILL get better
- You will probably find your best friend within your first week of school
- Don't judge someone you don't know because they WILL become your best friend
- The food isn't as good as you may think but that doesn't mean to waste your money at fast food places
- You do NOT have to say "yes" to everything that comes across your plate
- You will get sick, don't use your absences because you don't feel like getting out of bed
- BUY RAIN BOOTS OR A STURDY UMBRELLA
- The wifi probably sucks
- They might break a power line, and the power may go out around campus but do NOT panic...Classes are probably canceled for the next day
- It is okay to ask for help
- If you get easily stressed 18 credits, a job, a sorority, and two clubs probably aren't a great idea
- There is such thing as getting too involved
- Don't trust everyone because you are desperate for friends
- Take out your trash
- Don’t put your ramen in the water fountains regardless of how far the bathroom may be
- Joining a sorority/fraternity could be the best or worst decision you ever make
- Get yourself a nice pair of headphones
- If your neighbors are loud, go to them first because I doubt the RA’s will do anything
- Use Chegg to buy books!!!
- Alone time to just sit and think is critical
- You don't need three pairs of tennis shoes, forty-five T-shirts and twenty pairs of pants
- TAKE PICTURES!
- TAKE PICTURES!
- TAKE PICTURES!
- Grammarly saves lives
- If a professor says attendance doesn't count that’s not an invitation to skip class every single time
- If you question it, you don't need it
- If you don't use it at home, you won’t use it at school
- If you're new to the area take a weekend to explore
- Do your laundry before you break the hamper
- No one likes their student ID picture…sorry
- Your syllabus is actually your Bible
- Have fun at least one night a week, ignore homework and stop stressing
- Check your email every day
- You don't have to drink and/or smoke just because you are in college
- Go to anything that is free…your’e broke
- LOOK INTO STUDY ABROAD!
- Don’t make a mess for the janitor… yes, they are getting paid to clean the building but not to be our maids… do your part
- Talk to that cute boy in class and make friends with him… this doesn't mean you have to date
- If you're religious, keep God close
- If you aren't religious, that's okay, just be open to new experiences if your college is religious
- Call and visit home often
- Just because there is ice cream doesn't mean you ahem to have it after every meal
- Not having a major is okay, I promise
- If you're bored, you're doing it wrong
- You and your roommate could be complete opposites, but they could turn into your best friend
- You and your roommate could be exactly the same, and you may end up hating each other
- Move out or learn to live with it, you're always going to have to handle people you may not like
- Find a hobby
- Buy pepper spray, you may NEVER use it, but it makes you (and your parents) feel better
- Nobody really cares what you did in high school… sorry
- Get to REALLY know people not just their name and where they are from
- Being on your own is actually pretty scary, but you'll get used to it
- Find that friend who can be your “mom friend” in your friend group
- But when it comes to a friend GROUP remember quality, not quantity
- Name brand is only cool if you find it at Salvation Army or Goodwill
- Find at least one professor to always go to
- If you feel like giving up, remember why you started
- Some friends may walk away, and that's okay they weren't meant to be in your life
- Some friends may transfer, and it will probably be really sad but be happy for them, it’s what's best for them not you
- Just because they are transferring doesn't mean you can’t be friends
- There's really no way of escaping the freshmen 15… don't hate yourself everyone goes through it
- You need to learn self-respect, enough to know when to walk away from toxic situations
- Stay in touch with your friends from back home
- One bad grade will not kill you
- You must learn how to love yourself
- Don’t make a promise you cannot keep
- MLA isn't the only thing you will be using…learn APA
- Invest in Post-it notes for to-do lists, reminders, notes to your roommate, inspirational quotes to hang up, bookmarks, to look at for decoration… Post-its are pretty handy
- Slushy runs with friends are so much more than 5-minute drives…they're memories
- Sometimes you need just to cry
- If someone asks how you are, the answer is always “I’m tired” because of it's true… you're ALWAYS tired
- The library is actually the coolest place on campus
- Animals become cuter on college because it’s a rare sight
- Get an outdoor blanket and sit outside on the lawn when it’s nice out
- There is no dress code but respect yourself
- Don’t change who you are for anyone
- Stay organized…it’s super important
- Your room will NEVER look like one of those Pinterest rooms
- You will learn to love your mom's cooking compared to school food
- If you sit in your bed to do homework, it will NEVER get done…use your desk
- You have control over when your classes are when you schedule if you aren't a morning person don't schedule morning classes unless you HAVE to
- Breathing is important in everything you do
- Singing happy birthday to friends at midnight is a thing
- If you lend someone a pen make sure it’s not your favorite one
- If you help friends move, they help you move
- Don’t post stupid things on Facebook that might get you in trouble, if you question the post don't post it
- You probably won't marry the first person you date, take it slow
- Pulling all-nighters doesn't make you look cool, it makes you look stupid
- Time really does fly…it’ll be over before you know it
-Love Emily <3