The first few days of school can be nerve racking for a lot of people. If youāre a freshman, youāre walking into a lecture hall that seats a million peopleā¦ none of whom you know. If youāre a senior, youāre praying that youāre not walking into a death trap that prevents you from graduating on time. The best way to get past your anxiety is to get yourself a buddy in the class to lift you up throughout the semester, in sickness and in hangover.
Trust me, exam season will be here before you know it, and itāll be much better if you have someone to struggle through it with. But side note; you want to make friends carefully so that youāre not the one carrying both of you. Thereās nothing more aggravating than sending someone all of your lecture notes because they sleep through class or are too inebriated to come. Of course, stereotypes are not definite, and Iāve absolutely come across exceptions in my classes (but honestly, you can usually tell the deal at first glance).
Here are 10 types of people youāll see in class, and a ranking of how good theyāll be at helping you thrive this semester:
1. Those Three Frat Stars (4/10)
Typically seen in the back of the hall, probably with one earbud in and holding a gallon of Gatorade. They likely circulate notes within their friend group and maybe wonāt be so open to forging new friendships with you. They wonāt mind sending you notes if you skip, but alsoā¦ how good do you think those notes are?
2. Girl Wearing LuLu Lemon Everything (8/10)
This girl in her activewear looks ready to run as far away from her problems of this semester as possible. Sheās a goal-setter (not to be mistaken with a goal-achiever), who has the drive to do well that she may or may not fulfill. If you buddy up with her, sheāll be a magnifying force for youāif you thrive, sheāll help you to the top. If you fall off your workload halfway through the semester, sheāll fall straight down into the pits of hell with you. Itās a mutual effort.
3. Lowkey Class Genius (5/10)
Hard to spot, even harder to convince to get them to explain things to you when youāre stuck. To people who excel in class, it can be difficult to explain basic concepts because they donāt really know what itās like to not understand them. They camouflage, but you if do happen to get lucky and befriend one, donāt pester them to help you all the time; ask them for their stellar notes if you were sick or at a conference, and stick to going to office hours for clarification with the material.
4. Professorās Default Question-Answerer (7/10)
Yeah, in class they may be a bit of a know-it-all. But the reality of the situation is, if youāre in a class where you are struggling, it could really help you to have a buddy who really knows what theyāre talking about and are proud of it. And youāll probably make it easier for them to deal with the harder material when theyāre in the unfamiliar situation of being absolutely clueless. You guys could both have a lot to gain from a friendship like this.
5. Student With 25-Credit Workload (3/10)
Whatever their absurd reason is for taking eight classes and running an off-campus organization, theyāre just not going to be the most supportive friend in your class. Clearly, their ability to juggle classes indicates that theyāre a good student, but the reality is that if you ask them for notes, it might take them a week and a half to get around to sending them to you. Helping class acquaintances wonāt be their priority at any point this semesterā¦ theyāll be busy finding time to eat their one meal of the day.
6. Dude Sitting Alone Wearing Socks And Sandals (8/10)
Pretty friendly, but not really interested in becoming friends outside of class. This kid has got his own friends already, but heās happy to help. Theyāll probably be pretty open about the state of their organization and note-taking skills, so if you chat them up and think theyāll be an asset, go ahead and get their number. Just be sure to not make it a regular thing.
7. High-Achieving Student Wearing A Fedora (2/10)
Okay, to be honestā¦ theyāll probably be a bit of an asshole. They donāt need your help, and will probably not see any reason to waste their time trying to learn with anyone below their level. If they *are* willing to send you their notes, you can probably bet that theyāll want you to pay them or buy them a drink. Which is fair enough, but you can probably find someone who you donāt consider as being condescending.
8. Friendly Kid In A T-Shirt And Baseball Cap (9/10)
They might be the reason you pass organic chemistry, your new best friend, or both. They're pretty chill with sharing their notes and probably the one who asks for your number first. Theyāre just trying to have a good time, so having a friend in class is their main goal too. Youāll probably each skip a few times, so itāll be pretty easy to balance each other out.
9. Hipster-Nerd Dude (9/10)
This guy is probably super friendly and a good student. Theyāll always be happy to lend a helping hand, as long as they feel as though their efforts are reciprocated. He might express some fairly opinionated with views you donāt agree with, but keep them to yourself and youāll have a long, amicable mutual agreement.
10. Anyone Wearing Headphones (0/10)
Donāt talk to them, donāt look at them, donāt even go near them. Leave them to their solitary struggleāitās what they want.