10 Truths I Have Learned In 2016 | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Politics and Activism

10 Truths I Have Learned In 2016

19
10 Truths I Have Learned In 2016
Pinterest

As this year is coming to a close, it has been making me nostalgic of all that I have experienced and learned in the past 11 months. This has been a year of transition, growth and change that has made me a stronger person than I thought I ever could be. I wanted to share with you the 10 truths I have learned this past year.

1. Dinner for one is always okay.

Go ahead! Take yourself out to a nice dinner by yourself. And please know, you don’t have to feel lonely when you are alone.

2. There is always a chance that front-clasp bras will open on you unexpectedly

*walking to class

*dancing

*cross body purse strap breaking the clasp

*standing still

*breathing

3. A good cry is always needed

Let the tears fall, babe. You’ll feel so much better.

4. Wearing makeup does not mean you are insecure

Wearing makeup everyday does not mean that you don’t want people to see the "real" you. It just means you really like makeup. That’s it. Honest.

5. No makeup does not mean you are not trying

Walking out the door without a stitch of makeup does not mean that you are not making an effort either. You can find confidence with or without makeup. Just do what makes you feel your best, girl!

6. A good hug can make your whole day

A big hug can make all the difference in your day. Personally, I have always been partial to snuggles, so this wasn’t really a new thing I learned this year… just reinforced!

7. A smile is never out of place

There is never an inappropriate time to show someone you make them smile. And it is the best feeling to give a smile, just as much being given one. Smile on, friends!

8. Whatever it is that gets you through the day, DO THAT.

If this means eating all the pasta in the pantry, having a bottle of wine… or two, or hiding yourself in your house for a day, then Do IT! There is no wrong way to do things, so just do what gets you through the day— as long as you are being kind to yourself.

9. Your feminist voice is never too loud

This is one of the most important things I have learned this year. I have spent this last year trying my best to use my voice for all women. I have devoted myself to being an intersectional feminist (because there is not any other kind of true feminism than intersectional), and have had countless debates in my classes defending all women, including those who participate in prostitution. If there is one thing I know to be the Truth is that there is never a wrong time to be a woman warrior. Your voice can never get too loud and the #womenarmy can never get too big.

10. Although we cannot change some things (i.e. the outcome of the election), there many problems that you CAN change!

Find what you are passionate about and donate your money and/or your time! Every small act does really make a big difference.

And although this year has gone on way too long, appreciate what it has brought you. Take the good with you and leave the bad stuff in 2016. Because guess what? 2017 is coming!


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

181492
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

8385
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

453311
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

23806
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments