We all know people who are always late to something whether it’s their job, a meeting, social event or any type of engagement for that matter. I know as I just typed that last statement a couple of people come to mind. Sure, these people probably have excuses but how many times are you going to listen to the same old thing? Oh traffic was bad or my alarm didn’t go off… Those only work for so long. When people are late I’m sure some of you just let it pass “like oh it’s okay, there’s always next time” but I’m sure I bet in your mind you’re actually thinking something else or even mumbling it under your breath. So, here are ten things that people are really thinking when it comes to that consistently late friend.
1. People who are always late are simply rude and disrespectful.
Some think that people who are consistently late are selfish and inconsiderate of other people's time. Is that a true statement? Well, I suppose that's a matter of perspective as a case can be made for both.
2. They are people who are not able to say NO.
People who are late sometimes use the excuse that I have too many responsibilities or too much going one which can translate to I'm overcommitted and can't say no to those around me. Time management is hard, I get it, but don't let others suffer and waste their time when you don't know the value of your own.
3. They like being late...
Some people like being late, they like the idea that people are waiting to be "graced with their presence". I'm not too sure what else to say about these people other than it seems like they want to be the sole center of attention.
4. I guess if I want this person here or there I better tell them an earlier time.
This one is for those that know people who no matter what time you tell them the event starts they will ALWAYS be late. These are the people that you have to tell them that the meeting is at 7 when it's actually at 8 and then maybe, just maybe they'll be walking in the door at 7:55.
5. Oh, no more excuses?!
People who are chronically late sometimes get to a point where they don't even try to make up an excuse and don't even use they usual ones they are just like, "I'm gonna be late" No surprise there I'm sure but it is what it is.
6. How hard is it for you to be on time for once in your life?
I'm sure this thought crosses many people's minds time after time. How hard is it to leave a little bit earlier from your home? Not that hard especially if you're familiar with the area but I guess that's still asking a lot.
7. You're getting paid to be here and do your job and yet I'm the one waiting on you.
Being late doesn't only apply to friends and family, let's talk about healthcare professionals or employees. These people get a paycheck to be here and be on time but they still can't manage. Is my time really less valuable than yours or are you just egotistical?
8. If I can't count count on this person to simply show up someone I sure hope I never have to rely on them in a life or death situation.
Think about it, if your friend can't be on time to meet you for coffee what makes you think they will be there in the event of an emergency? They won't so suck it up buttercup you may need to find some new reliability.
9. When people talk about you they don't talk about positive attributes they talk about lateness.
When some says "insert name here" the common response is, "oh yeah, she/is is always late" that's the sole connotation nothing more nothing less. Who wants that? Who really wants to become the punchline to people's jokes.
10. The world or event isn't all about you.
Your actions have consequences being late may be nothing to you but to those around you it's annoying and ridiculous. Time doesn't stop when you walk in. You are simply another pawn in this chess game called life so please, do us all a favor.. do your part and be ON TIME. P.S. Being in the parking lot doesn't count.
Chronically late people can get on people's nerves no doubt about it, everyone knows someone who is notorious for being late fashionably or not, it's simply not cool. Some say they truly can't help it but really? What do you think? What are some thoughts that you all have when it comes to that one friend that you can always count on to be late?
