Girls are complicated and I will be the first one to admit that. We want boys we can't have, we want to have a different body type than the current one and overall we simply just want to be accepted and please EVERYONE (logical right?). With this being said there are many easy ways for boys (yes you guys are still boys, not men) to avoid girls dramatic and sometimes deserved breakdowns. Here are 8 things you should never say to girls (unless you don't care about the consequences that lie ahead):
1. You look tired.
First of all what do you or the other person get out of you asking this? Nothing. And in all honesty girls over analyze themselves 24/7 so they already know if they look tired. They do not need someone who doesn't know the struggle of putting on under eye concealer to tell them that.
2. That looks fine.
Fine? Girls spend about 7 years getting ready so we better look slightly better than fine. How about drop dead gorgeous (or something along those lines).
3. Is it that time of the month?
If you have to ask her this you're probably just being a dick to her and making her upset. Also girls can and are emotional and dramatic all month so don't try and push her buttons by asking her this cause if anything you'll just end up sleeping on the couch.
4. Are you wearing that out?
She could wear a trash bag out and you still have to say "you look beautiful". Also boys don't even know the difference between a bralette and a bra so does their opinion really even count?
5. Where do you want to eat?
Don't ask where she wants to eat. Why? Because this will end in a 2 hour conversationtalking about all of the flaws in your relationship including (but not limited to) your past girlfriends who have nothing to do with the topic at hand.
6. K.
When a girl sends you paragraphs expressing how she feels and whats been on her mind lately, she wants a little more effort than a single letter.
7. Didn't you just eat?
Yeah I did just eat a pint of ice cream and yeah now I want a grilled cheese. So what? Putting up with boys' bullshit can be tiring sometimes and therefore we need to restock our calorie supply.
8. Calm down.
You could say this to a rock and the rock would get angry. No one likes to be told to calm down and therefore you shouldn't say it in the middle of an argument because now she's bringing up stuff you did when you were 12 and she's not calming down anytime soon.
