10 Things I've Learned About Dating As Told By 'Spongebob'
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10 Things I've Learned About Dating As Told By 'Spongebob'

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10 Things I've Learned About Dating As Told By 'Spongebob'
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Dating is weird. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, and sometimes it takes a lot of trial and error before getting it right. We learn from past mistakes on what to do and not do in the future. Here are some really important dating lessons I've learned from personal experience or from witnessing it in others, accompanied with "Spongebob" GIFs for clarification.

1. Communication is everything.

Almost every fight or problem can be solved with good communication. Being honest and truly listening to each other are extremely important, not just for dating, but for any relationship you have. Make it a priority to have talks about what's bothering you, and repeat back what the other said to make sure they know you're listening.

2. Be yourself.


What's the point of being with someone who doesn't know the real you? Don't change who you are for someone else. If they don't love you for all you weirdness, they don't deserve you! It's only when you can be completely yourself that you will be truly happy together!

3. Don't stay with someone just because it feels comfortable.


Even though you may feel like they're the only one with whom you'll ever be comfortable, that's just not true. Don't limit yourself because you're afraid you'll never find anyone else.

4. Consent. Consent. Consent.


It's incredibly important for both men and women to remember — always ask before acting.

5. Trust your gut.


If something feels wrong, your body will tell you. Don't make excuses or push it away.

6. If you don't love yourself, you will never be able to fully commit.


I've found this to be extremely important for romantic relationships. Until you're comfortable in your own skin, your insecurities will translate into problems in your relationships.

7. Let the little things go.


There's no use getting frustrated at things that don't really matter, when there are definitely more important things you can focus on.

8. You are more than your body.


You are not just a body; you are a person. You don't need someone to come through and gratify you with empty compliments, and then bless the ground they walk on for thinking well of you.

9. Don't knock Tinder.

I've seen a few successful relationships blossom from Tinder and online dating websites, so don't knock it 'til you try it!

10. Have fun.


Dating is supposed to be enjoyable, so make sure to laugh, be silly and don't take life so seriously.

Despite how intimidating and stressful dating may seem, it can be an incredibly rewarding experience. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there, you never know who you might meet!

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