Hello everyone! This week I've decided to dedicate my blog post to all of my friends who are starting college this upcoming fall. I won't spare you the long intro on what this is about...it's kind of just a few guidelines that I learned during my freshman year. So without further adieu, here are a few things you'll want to know if you're just starting college.
1. Don't date during your first year.
This is probably one of those things that a lot of people were told before they came into college. Your first year is hectic enough. You're figuring yourself out. You're learning about who you are as an independent human being. Make sure that you focus on yourself your first year. It's important.
2. Not everyone you meet will be your best friend.
You will meet a lot of different people. You will be a part of a lot of different friend groups. These groups do not define you. These people may come and go. Some will stay. Hold on to those people.
3. Never turn down an adventure.
Adventure? Yes. This ranges from late night McDonald's runs to random trips into the city for cookies. Unless you have a REALLY good excuse or this adventure is illegal, go. You'll have a good time.
4. Don't forget to make time for yourself.
This is something I learned during my spring semester. I was so drained because I was making time for everyone except for myself. You matter, and sometimes alone time is what you need to recuperate from a week long of assignments and adventures.
5. Don't forget to make time for God.
Even more important than making time for yourself...make time for God. Trust me, time with God is never wasted.
6. Write things down.
Write down everything. You'll be surprised how scatter-brained you can and will become. Even if you're someone who remembers everything, write it down. You'll thank yourself later.
7. If you can, get that assignment done early.
This is another thing you'll thank yourself for later. I know, in high school, you can get it done the night before and you'll be fine...and yeah, it's totally possible to do that in college too...but I promise you that you'll hate yourself for it.
8. Sleep is a gift.
Do not take this gift for granted.
9. Free food is also a gift.
It's hard because nobody wants to gain the Freshman 15...but free food is never something to turn down when you're at college.
10. Enjoy your time.
It gets stressful, and it gets hard. Lots of things happen during your first year. Don't let that ruin your time in college. Get your work done, hang out with your friends, try new things, and make memories. You'll look back a year from now and see how much things have changed for the better. It's scary at first, but take that step in. It's worth it.
This blog post has been inspired by my first college Ramen noodles.
